"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This just about sums it all up

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lzz4QtbTu6M&feature=related

This is a scene from the movie American Psycho. This scene tells you everything you need to know about how YOU should view women. This isn't Disney world and there is NOT a woman out there who was put on this earth just for you. Guys who embrace this reality, although it is a very harsh reality to embrace for recovering and lifelong AFC's, will be much more happy and mentally and financially stable over the course of their lives.

Especially pay attention to :13 through :22. This is how you should view women. Until you find some girl who goes out of her mother****ing way, i.e. literally bends over backwards and walks over hot coals to make you happy and show you respect, you NEED TO VIEW ALL WOMEN LIKE THIS. The ironic part is that women will respond to this attitude as opposed to some chump who is obsessed with her. Guys who get laid are guys who could give a **** about offending women. They view women as children and not as some serious equal. Call me a misogynist if you want. I could care less.

After about 34-35 seconds they start talking about the serial killer ed gein. Forget that. You don't have to listen to it. It's pretty ****ed up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nice, getting your opinions about women from the movie "American Psycho" where the lead character is quoting a serial killer.

Way to go guys. Just make sure I'm nowhere near the salon or women's gym when you show up there with your 9mm.
 

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Actually, I think you're right, that clip does just about sum it up, to wit:

The quoted serial killer says that when he sees a woman walking down the street, one part of him wants to take her out, talk with her, be really nice, etc., and the other part wants to see her head on a stake (ie, be violent toward her).

I think that's how most betas feel too. On one hand they're total supplicants with an urge to be the wimpy "nice guy," and on the other hand this inability to control themselves around women makes them loathe women and the power than women have over them. Hence the rage that ensues thereafter.

Betas swing from total nice guy to total raging psycho and back again. They are wimps around women and hate themselves for it. But rather than fix themselves, they blame women. Much of it is plain to see right here on the forums. Guys who shoot up womens' gyms are just the ones who've given in to the violent side of that duality. I smell a blog post coming on!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zarky said:
Actually, I think you're right, that clip does just about sum it up, to wit:

The quoted serial killer says that when he sees a woman walking down the street, one part of him wants to take her out, talk with her, be really nice, etc., and the other part wants to see her head on a stake (ie, be violent toward her).

I think that's how most betas feel too. On one hand they're total supplicants with an urge to be the wimpy "nice guy," and on the other hand this inability to control themselves around women makes them loathe women and the power than women have over them. Hence the rage that ensues thereafter.

Betas swing from total nice guy to total raging psycho and back again. They are wimps around women and hate themselves for it. But rather than fix themselves, they blame women. Much of it is plain to see right here on the forums. Guys who shoot up womens' gyms are just the ones who've given in to the violent side of that duality. I smell a blog post coming on!

lol i see you are a big george sodini fan. i feel bad for that guy, i feel that mabye if he had a friend or maybe if just smoked some pot or visited a couple hookers he might have been ok.

have the rest of you guys seen this, the old dude who didnt get laid for over 20 years and shot up a womens aerobics class, look at this video he made of himself, look how dead inside and desperate he was

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=319_1327474521
 

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Would agree with the link...saving the head on stick part.

Its like anything in life, those who have less or are less genetically gifted have to work harder. Not fair but what can you do.
 

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Zarky said:
Actually, I think you're right, that clip does just about sum it up, to wit:

The quoted serial killer says that when he sees a woman walking down the street, one part of him wants to take her out, talk with her, be really nice, etc., and the other part wants to see her head on a stake (ie, be violent toward her).

I think that's how most betas feel too. On one hand they're total supplicants with an urge to be the wimpy "nice guy," and on the other hand this inability to control themselves around women makes them loathe women and the power than women have over them. Hence the rage that ensues thereafter.

Betas swing from total nice guy to total raging psycho and back again. They are wimps around women and hate themselves for it. But rather than fix themselves, they blame women. Much of it is plain to see right here on the forums. Guys who shoot up womens' gyms are just the ones who've given in to the violent side of that duality. I smell a blog post coming on!
Why are you focusing on the serial killer part of this video when I specifically said that wasn't what my post was about?

I'm talking about all the stuff they were saying before the :35 second mark. C'mon dude.
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
Why are you focusing on the serial killer part of this video when I specifically said that wasn't what my post was about?
I don't really care what your post was about. That part of the clip with the serial killer caught my attention and was a perfect analogy for what I believe really low-ranked men feel toward women. It was far more interesting and enlightening than your post, no offense.

However, in my original post I said that "betas" feel that way toward women. Upon further rumination, I think even betas are above that. I think it's the lowest "gammas" -- or whatever they're being called these days -- who have those feelings swinging between pedestalization and rage.

Betas have these feelings to a lesser extent. They may not actually fantasize about killing women but they probably write angry blog or forum posts about "feminism" or "hypergamy" and how the two are destroying civilization.

I believe that alphas, while they may not treat women all that great, don't have feelings of anger toward women. It's more of a blasé thoughtlessness than active hostility. They don't fear women and so they don't get angry about them. Anger is always caused by fear.
 
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