rascal99v
Senior Don Juan
Betas will always have some excuse and their inner game will be always ruled by fear. They will put a chick on a pedestal from the very start rather than getting what they want. Tricks and gimmicks are a beta's best friend because they believe in trying raise interest that isn't there. These guys have no other options, so they submit to the power of her pvssy. All of this includes, being afraid of her losing interest and her not liking you, being scared to text, her controlling the frame, you asking her what she wants, waiting for sex, letting her use sex as a weapon against you, and letting her hang out with orbiters while she emasculates you even more. Men who have this terrible mindset fail with women all the time. But they have the nerve to argue and debate rather than changing their inner game so they can get better results.
Women want a man who is comfortable in his own skin. A man who isn't afraid of getting what he wants. A man who has power. A man who doesn't question himself or his abilities. A man who isn't worried about getting women or people to like him. A guy who is willing to take risks in life and not being the typical ass kissing pushover that so many guys try to be. These betas try to be the nice guy and are worried about their own inadequacies. They put limits on what they can do in the dating world and suffer the consequences when they end up losing out.
When I read some of these threads that is exactly what I see. "Don't do this or don't do that because she won't like me". "Don't text her because that will "kill a relationship", she might laugh at my texts along with her friends". "Texting her will make me appear to be too needy like I'm chasing her." "I shouldn't use kino on my date because that will make me look like I'm after one thing." "I better ask her what days and times are better for her to make it easier for her". "I shouldn't talk to her before the date so she will have more interest in me". "I should withdraw all my attention to make her chase me". "I should let her hang out with her guy friends so she doesn't get mad at me". "Setting a boundary will make me look like a pvssy". "What can I do to make her like me"? And on and on it goes. All of this beta thinking is flowing through your mind and inner self which is ruled out of fear. Instead of doing what you want, you are submitting to the woman and limiting what you are doing as a man.
Instead of getting what you want out of these chicks, you are too focused on thinking what she wants. What she wants is a real man and not a beta where she has to lead all the damn time. By limiting yourself, you have a lack of tools. The chick will have to pick up for your lack of game which results in her losing interest.
You shouldn't worry about if a chick likes you at all. Worrying causes fear and that leads to beta thinking by putting her on a pedestal trying to be nice to her. That leads to ass kissing and doing what she wants. This happens as soon as numbers are exchanged and will continue on to however far it goes.
Instead of being afraid, start doing what you want. Aren't you supposed to be the guy who's leading? You can't lead with a worried mind and these chicks who are experienced in the game will pick up on it right away.
Having options is what will help you stop your beta ways. You will have other chicks and you will gain confidence and won't allow women to walk over you. Not only that, you won't be afraid to do what you want because you know there are other women you can have.
It's all about interest in dating. If there is none, there is nothing you can do to get high interest with a chick that doesn't have it. She will treat you like sh1t, laugh at you, or will ignore you. That will happen when you talk or text a chick who doesn't like you.
Chicks that like you will text you on their own and will have high interest. Nothing will be "killed" because she will like you. So, being afraid of losing interest and trying to kiss her ass is lame. Change your beta mindset to a positive one. Because with high interests chicks, your chances of getting laid is pretty damn good.
If you don't have a strong mindset which includes a solid inner game, you will fail with women all the time. This is the most important part of your game that needs to be as solid as a rock. If you go around trying to fake it, you will make mistakes which will make you fail. That's what happens with these so called alphas who are really betas. They are no prizes but just think they are one. We all know that doesn't work when push comes to shove because they can't pull the trigger when it counts.
How can you do that? Quit making the woman the only thing in your life. When you fully understand that you don't really need her, your attitude will change. Your inner game comes from inside you, nobody can help you with that unless you are willing to have a fearless mind.
If you let fear come out, that affects everything about you. Including your speech, your mannerisms, your thoughts, the way you carry yourself, your behavior and actions, and the way you act around women.
Which is why betas think the way they do. They are afraid, and all their actions show that the way they conduct themselves and with the advice they give and believe. It is all based on fear because of their own inadequacies, so they try to push all of that onto other guys because they have failed in the game.
There is no reason to think that way or be like that. You can always change and become the man you want to be by getting rid of the fear you have. Once you do that, you will be getting positive results rather than being worried and failing. A strong mindset is an amazing thing and what you need to adopt to be successful.
Men who are successful have other things going on besides the chick. She is just there an accessory to your life. And if you need to get another one, you replace her with your options that you have available. So, worrying about interest levels, texting, her liking you, letting her hang out with other men is stupid and what betas will always do. :yes:
Start doing the things you want and the things you expect out of a chick. Chicks who are into will respect you, they will do the things that you want, you will be satisfied with the results. You are leading and are the man in the relationship instead of following being the beta b1tch. Being afraid to get what you want is stupid, because high interest chicks will do them for you.
Instead of faking having a solid inner game and thinking with fear, start working on a strong inner game for real, so you can have success and not let chicks treat you like sh1t and you won't have a beta mindset in which you are always afraid all the time.
Women want a man who is comfortable in his own skin. A man who isn't afraid of getting what he wants. A man who has power. A man who doesn't question himself or his abilities. A man who isn't worried about getting women or people to like him. A guy who is willing to take risks in life and not being the typical ass kissing pushover that so many guys try to be. These betas try to be the nice guy and are worried about their own inadequacies. They put limits on what they can do in the dating world and suffer the consequences when they end up losing out.
When I read some of these threads that is exactly what I see. "Don't do this or don't do that because she won't like me". "Don't text her because that will "kill a relationship", she might laugh at my texts along with her friends". "Texting her will make me appear to be too needy like I'm chasing her." "I shouldn't use kino on my date because that will make me look like I'm after one thing." "I better ask her what days and times are better for her to make it easier for her". "I shouldn't talk to her before the date so she will have more interest in me". "I should withdraw all my attention to make her chase me". "I should let her hang out with her guy friends so she doesn't get mad at me". "Setting a boundary will make me look like a pvssy". "What can I do to make her like me"? And on and on it goes. All of this beta thinking is flowing through your mind and inner self which is ruled out of fear. Instead of doing what you want, you are submitting to the woman and limiting what you are doing as a man.
Instead of getting what you want out of these chicks, you are too focused on thinking what she wants. What she wants is a real man and not a beta where she has to lead all the damn time. By limiting yourself, you have a lack of tools. The chick will have to pick up for your lack of game which results in her losing interest.
You shouldn't worry about if a chick likes you at all. Worrying causes fear and that leads to beta thinking by putting her on a pedestal trying to be nice to her. That leads to ass kissing and doing what she wants. This happens as soon as numbers are exchanged and will continue on to however far it goes.
Instead of being afraid, start doing what you want. Aren't you supposed to be the guy who's leading? You can't lead with a worried mind and these chicks who are experienced in the game will pick up on it right away.
Having options is what will help you stop your beta ways. You will have other chicks and you will gain confidence and won't allow women to walk over you. Not only that, you won't be afraid to do what you want because you know there are other women you can have.
It's all about interest in dating. If there is none, there is nothing you can do to get high interest with a chick that doesn't have it. She will treat you like sh1t, laugh at you, or will ignore you. That will happen when you talk or text a chick who doesn't like you.
Chicks that like you will text you on their own and will have high interest. Nothing will be "killed" because she will like you. So, being afraid of losing interest and trying to kiss her ass is lame. Change your beta mindset to a positive one. Because with high interests chicks, your chances of getting laid is pretty damn good.
If you don't have a strong mindset which includes a solid inner game, you will fail with women all the time. This is the most important part of your game that needs to be as solid as a rock. If you go around trying to fake it, you will make mistakes which will make you fail. That's what happens with these so called alphas who are really betas. They are no prizes but just think they are one. We all know that doesn't work when push comes to shove because they can't pull the trigger when it counts.
How can you do that? Quit making the woman the only thing in your life. When you fully understand that you don't really need her, your attitude will change. Your inner game comes from inside you, nobody can help you with that unless you are willing to have a fearless mind.
If you let fear come out, that affects everything about you. Including your speech, your mannerisms, your thoughts, the way you carry yourself, your behavior and actions, and the way you act around women.
Which is why betas think the way they do. They are afraid, and all their actions show that the way they conduct themselves and with the advice they give and believe. It is all based on fear because of their own inadequacies, so they try to push all of that onto other guys because they have failed in the game.
There is no reason to think that way or be like that. You can always change and become the man you want to be by getting rid of the fear you have. Once you do that, you will be getting positive results rather than being worried and failing. A strong mindset is an amazing thing and what you need to adopt to be successful.
Men who are successful have other things going on besides the chick. She is just there an accessory to your life. And if you need to get another one, you replace her with your options that you have available. So, worrying about interest levels, texting, her liking you, letting her hang out with other men is stupid and what betas will always do. :yes:
Start doing the things you want and the things you expect out of a chick. Chicks who are into will respect you, they will do the things that you want, you will be satisfied with the results. You are leading and are the man in the relationship instead of following being the beta b1tch. Being afraid to get what you want is stupid, because high interest chicks will do them for you.
Instead of faking having a solid inner game and thinking with fear, start working on a strong inner game for real, so you can have success and not let chicks treat you like sh1t and you won't have a beta mindset in which you are always afraid all the time.
