"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this is why you don't let neocons out the house unsupervised

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so I'm sitting here trying to wind down, getting ready to fire up another netflix documentary, i found a pretty good one on iran titled "iran: The forgotten glory

http://i781.photobucket.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/a.jpg


you know, the Persians, the whole bible thing, sounds like it will be interesting


here come the freaking neocons on netflix

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just can't leave well enough alone. just can't sit down and enjoy a freaking historical documentary without the pot shots. this guy right here in america is why we can't learn **** (I don't want to learn about freaking terrorist!) and why we will never get antyhing done as long as you can rile up this guy to vote against nuking 'them'.

this really pisses me off. i mean political thoughts aside, some people just don't know how to cut "that" off. like, there are places and times you just don't go there. just like on every forum there is usually a place where it's okay to talk about stuff like that then the place where you don't talk about stuff like that and you got like 2-3 guys who just don't know how to tell the difference between the two. that's kinda why i don't like talking politics here but this pisses me off to no end and i needed to randomly vent.

I may not agree with the Iranian government but very few if any countries have a more rich natural history than Iran does.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Atom Smasher

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Why let a comment from some random guy on the Internet "piss you off to no end"?

This is the Wild West, bro. Idiots are everywhere. If you let them get to you they own you.
 

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oh man, you should see the comments being left on the recent news articles of that US soldier going on a rampage. It's disgusting what some of them are posting...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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