"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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this is why you don't go after your friend's EX

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FLGuy said:
What I think is really funny is the " ol' dirty basterd" of a friend, thought he was being slick and ended up being the one who got played.
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For real. It's one thing if he's just a dirty opportunist, trying to get some booty. But the fact that he's trying to parade her around at parties, like she's his girlfriend.....he couldnt have gotten owned any worse.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74 said:
Seriously though, at some point a chic is gonna meet your friends if she's more than just a hook up, and if she's just a hook up, you should be prepared for the "why don't I ever meet your friends" business.
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I keep broads at arm's length. They don't meet my friends unless it's just in passing. And I don't have many friends. And I have a very, very small family. So it's not like they're running into them.

Let's put it this way, I have about 10x more ex-girlfriends than I have current friends.

Eventually the broads want more than I'm willing to share and they leave. Sometimes it takes 'em a month, sometimes it takes them a decade. That's how it goes, and that's just fine with me, because I like new broads. Forced turnover creates new opportunities. :yes:
 
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