"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is why true players are popular with the ladies

ScrewIt

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I decided to post this in tips for yall after it was pushed far away on some page in the discussion forum.

anyway i got bored and was looking through online ads, this would be the first time i came across an ad as amusing as this one come straight from a woman:

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Because, in all honesty, there are many types of players.......I don't like guys who lie, hide insecurity behind false pretenses, or purposely deceive or take advantage of people.

But I love the ones who understand the concept of charm, charisma, being laid back, subtle, yet not a tad boring...and, yes, having a bit of "game" when it comes to getting women. Listen up men!

Basically, I've reflected on my life, the men I've been attracted to vs. the ones where it hasn't worked out. The "players" never have to ask for anything or be demanding. They already know they have something coming to them. They always know how to treat a woman and really live! I never know what they're going to say next.

They are nurturing, affectionate, passionate, loads of fun, smart, always smiling, ok sometimes ****y, but always sexy with just enough heart and humility to prove that they are real people who care for others. They are always busy, always driven, always willing to give 100% of their honed, likeable personality to the person who's company they're sharing.

Now this has nothing to do with the fraternity boy mentality that's normally associated with a "player." This has to do with having something I want - and not having something you need to sell to me.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theSpeculator

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Originally posted by ScrewIt

They are nurturing, affectionate, passionate, loads of fun, smart, always smiling, ok sometimes ****y, but always sexy with just enough heart and humility to prove that they are real people who care for others. They are always busy, always driven, always willing to give 100% of their honed, likeable personality to the person who's company they're sharing.
This is exactly what my description of a true Don Juan is.
 

Luscious

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Originally posted by ScrewIt

Now this has nothing to do with the fraternity boy mentality that's normally associated with a "player." This has to do with having something I want - and not having something you need to sell to me.

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That right there is what I took from this - if you are truly outstanding, you don't need to sell it - women will WANT it.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt



But I love the ones who understand the concept of charm, charisma, being laid back, subtle, yet not a tad boring...and, yes, having a bit of "game" when it comes to getting women. Listen up men!
They already know they have something coming to them. They always know how to treat a woman and really live! I never know what they're going to say next.
They are nurturing, affectionate, passionate, loads of fun, smart, always smiling, ok sometimes ****y, but always sexy with just enough heart and humility to prove that they are real people who care for others. They are always busy, always driven, always willing to give 100% of their honed, likeable personality to the person who's company they're sharing.


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That's probably the best description of a DJ I have read on this site. In a bunch of sentences you have managed to explain something that the DJ-Bible isn't capable to explain with loads of posts.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
This has to do with having something I want - and not having something you need to sell to me.
BOO YA!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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