This is why I "hate" women, don't date, and have commitment issues

[Korrupt]

I put "hate" in quotes because I enjoy fvcking them, I just can't stand fvcking WITH them.

Actually now that I analyze the entire situation I can see all the red flags.

-I met this girl on tinder
-It was immediately sexual through text--pics being exchanged etc
-Met out somewhere with her friends, had a good time, and I ended up taking her home and fvcking her in my car
-For a week and a half she was obviously very interested, texted me pretty much every day and we hungout every other day as well as had a sleepover at her place
-I ask her to hangout on friday of last week and she tells me that she might be "coming down with strep"--from her snapchats that was definitely a lie and she was out on saturday
-I texted her asking how her throat was over the weekend--no response
-Texted her this morning--pretty sure there'll be no response

Absolute sociopath nutcases. All of them.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I put "hate" in quotes because I enjoy fvcking them, I just can't stand fvcking WITH them.

Actually now that I analyze the entire situation I can see all the red flags.

-I met this girl on tinder
-It was immediately sexual through text--pics being exchanged etc
-Met out somewhere with her friends, had a good time, and I ended up taking her home and fvcking her in my car
-For a week and a half she was obviously very interested, texted me pretty much every day and we hungout every other day as well as had a sleepover at her place
-I ask her to hangout on friday of last week and she tells me that she might be "coming down with strep"--from her snapchats that was definitely a lie and she was out on saturday
-I texted her asking how her throat was over the weekend--no response
-Texted her this morning--pretty sure there'll be no response

Absolute sociopath nutcases. All of them.

Dude. What's the problem? You got a couple of weeks of sex out of it. Why the fck are you getting all sensi about it at this stage? Any time a girl make and excuse or flakes or stonewalls, it's basically a) "no I don't want to see you" and, or b) "I have other sh!t going on other than fcking you".

The day women start giving straight, logical answers like a man, you can view it as a harbinger of the apocalypse.

Maybe the sex was sh!t for her. Despite what many guys will tell you, it's not always the girl being pathological; in fact, I'd say more times than most, it's the guy projecting on to the woman.

This is called a SH!T TEST. It's a very commonly understood phenomena. By not texting back and rejecting you, she's trying to see if she needs to filter you out for neediness; and to be fair, she's succeeding. WHY THE FCK ARE YOU TEXTING TWICE IN A ROW?? This is BASIC stuff right here!

You should have 4 or 5 of these women that you can call on. 'One' is too close to 'none'.

I don't believe in "**** tests".

You don't believe in sh!t tests? You're a fcking idiot.

 

[Korrupt]

I don't believe in "**** tests".

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Take a hint and move on.

 

[BrainDamage92]

why so butthurt over a tinder girl

 

[Building_and_Loan]

My God, the things some guys complain about on here are ridiculous.

So you fvcked a tinderella who had no reservations about sexting you right away and giving you what you were after all along.

What did you expect when you hooked up with this slvt? Either your expectations were unreasonably ridiculous for Tinder or you're just bad at sex.

You don't even really know this girl, bang her, talk to her for all of 2 weeks, then come on here to complain about how awful women can be when she stops showing interest? It doesn't make her a sociopath nutcase just because her interest cooled off. Don't let it get to you man, she has hundreds of guys hitting her up on Tinder, and fell for the next shiny thing. I suggest you try to do the same and get back out there.

 

[The Duke]

The faster they come, the quicker they leave.

 

[Korrupt]

I don't enjoy the "art of seduction" or "gaming girls". It's lame, it's boring, it's tiring, sometimes it's even expensive, and I hate doing it. It's also extremely difficult to find someone who is legitimately attractive, interesting, good in bed, and overall meets my standards, so when I do I'd like it to be ongoing and consistent. Almost every girl I've ever met, and especially the ones I've really liked, have ultimately turned out to be sociopaths. It's a sad thought that the only woman I will ever truly love is my mother.

My sex drive forces me to put my happiness into women and sex.

 

[BeTheChange]

LOL you do realise that women have other stuff going on in their lives other than YOU? Who's the real narcissistic sociopath here...

A humble man would think "if she can do this with me after one date then..."

Spin plates and stop whining. Keep your expectations low until a woman has proven that she is worth any real investment and discard those who don't meet your standards like the trash they are.

 

[MrWiggles]

Sounds like a trolljob.

 

[Yewki]

A humble man would think "if she can do this with me after one date then..."

Exactly, OP found a sl*t and is now complaining... she's a sl*t

Congratulations, you played yourself

 

[Asmodeus]

I put "hate" in quotes because I enjoy fvcking them, I just can't stand fvcking WITH them.

Actually now that I analyze the entire situation I can see all the red flags.

-I met this girl on tinder
-It was immediately sexual through text--pics being exchanged etc
-Met out somewhere with her friends, had a good time, and I ended up taking her home and fvcking her in my car
-For a week and a half she was obviously very interested, texted me pretty much every day and we hungout every other day as well as had a sleepover at her place
-I ask her to hangout on friday of last week and she tells me that she might be "coming down with strep"--from her snapchats that was definitely a lie and she was out on saturday
-I texted her asking how her throat was over the weekend--no response
-Texted her this morning--pretty sure there'll be no response

Absolute sociopath nutcases. All of them.

That is not sociopathic... She was just looking to have sex.

What were you expecting? I mean how on earth did you not realize what kind of girl she was when she became immediately sexual with a guy she met on Tinder.

Honestly, I love theses kinds of women. They are fun, low drama, and typically just live in the moment. You do not need to commit to them, you do not need to put a ton of effort to fvck them, and sex with theses types of women is always very incredible as they have no inhibitions. You could have likely had her around as a fvck buddy if you played your cards right too... I suspect you became a bit clingy, and it shows in how you are writing this post venting your frustrations that you could not have her. These girls do not want that, they do not want "boyfriend" they just want a fun guy to play with.

And now you "hate" women because of this and think her behavior is sociopathic? You honestly are sounding delusional.

 

[Korrupt]

Sheesh. Does no-one value honesty anymore? Ignoring someone out of the blue and for no reason without any explanation is totally f*cked up. I didn't realize this forum turned into a bunch of degenerates with no decency, respect or balls. If I'm not interested in someone I act like a man and tell them off.

 

[ubercat]

Ummm act like a man. She s not. On the old doc love scale. 10 - 12 dates before u ve passed enough **** tests to be a boyfriend candidate. Anything before that is just an audition. And that's even if a tinder girl was in the market for that.

 

[Asmodeus]

Sheesh. Does no-one value honesty anymore? Ignoring someone out of the blue and for no reason without any explanation is totally f*cked up. I didn't realize this forum turned into a bunch of degenerates with no decency, respect or balls. If I'm not interested in someone I act like a man and tell them off.

I am trying to explain this to you. She was never into you in that way... Not from the beginning... She only saw you as a fun time. I think she was actually being very honest and clear in her intentions. A woman who is being very openly sexual upfront and sending you sexual pics is literally telling you that her main interest with you is with having sex. I do not understand how this does not compute. Also, YOU MET HER ON TINDER. Most of the women I meet on Tinder are not there for a relationship. If they want a relationship they can choose one of the multitude of online dating sites... She does not need to tell you off, she is not angry at you for any reason. Why would she be? She simply had her fun, and now she is done. There no reason for her to hold any grudges. And why does she owe you an explanation anyway, her intentions were very clear from the get-go. You completely misjudged the situation and her intention.

Her actions were not in the least bit dishonest or sociopathic. She was clear that the main interest was sex. She did not manipulate you, she just had casual sex with you. You should thank her for the little fun fling you to had and the steamy car sex, I am sure that is was pretty hot.

 

[old_skoolr]

OP caught feelings and is acting like a teenage girl.......its beautiful to see.

 

[Bayne05]

She isn't your girlfriend she doesn't need to explain herself to you or be available whenever you want her, she has her own life. You're a booty call to her as much as she's a booty call to you.

Similar thing happened to me, met a girl online and we became fvckbuddies for a good 8 months I think. After a while I started seeing her less, suddenly she was either busy studying, too tired or she was with her friends. I figured she had enough d!ck from me, next.

You shouldn't be overly attached to fvckbuddies, the casual sex stops at some point. Woman online are looking to get laid as much as you do. Move on

 

[Who Dares Win]

I wish I have these problems, half of my tinder matches dont reply, the other half either let the conversation die or sometime a date happens.

I would sign to get a girl on tinder bang her few times and then have her disappear from my life.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Of course you met a girl on Tinder and you are going to cry about women being bad. GOOD LORD, wtf is wrong with men these days?

 

[bukowski_merit]

If this girl is a party girl (and she sounds like it) then it's not uncommon for them to feel resistance and anxiety when it seems like someone is developing feelings or a desire for a relationship with them. There's no doubt you came off this way to her; as well as needy.

I ask her to hangout on friday of last week and she tells me that she might be "coming down with strep"--from her snapchats that was definitely a lie and she was out on Saturday

This is not sociopathic behavior. This is typical Low-Self Esteem Party Girl behavior. I dealt with many girls like this during my days of online dating. I feel like you expect a woman to just come out and say "I feel like you're moving too fast"... or "I feel like we're getting too close" or whatever; so then you two can have some magical talk....

But that's not how girls like this work.... They come up with excuses and if they start to feel upset that they might be hurting you - they'll project that onto you. Now, you are a source of grief for them. Something to be avoided.

This is ****ing tinder man. Besides craigslist - it's pretty much the sluttiest place to find women. It's a good place to find ready sluts. But it's a terrible place to find women looking for relationships.... If you sail in certain seas you catch certain kinds of fishes....

-I texted her asking how her throat was over the weekend--no response
-Texted her this morning--pretty sure there'll be no response

Whether you believe in **** tests or not....

This is pure garbage and a fail.

She bull****ted you, and you responded with compassion. You responded with concern. I don't know how you can be on this site and think that's the correct way to respond.

The answer is you moving on to other girls.

The answer is you giving her silence the minute she bull****ted you. I'm talking complete and total neglect from that point on.