"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is why girls flake on guys so much!

aftershock

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You know what the answer is?

I call when I feel like it!

Works fine for me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mrRuckus

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I admit freely i barely know what the hell i'm doing and i'm no awesome ladies man.

But really... does this stuff happen? Every time i've started talking to a girl and she went as far as to give me her number she was absolutely dieing to for me to call and get together with me.

Why even get the number of some girl you don't know and who doesn't know you or a single thing about you? Don't you have other stuff to do?

If you're interesting and she laughs at your jokes and you gave her a reason to want to talk to you again when you met her... what's the difference when you call?
 

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why get a # of a girl u dont kno? cuz shes hot and u wanna hook up with her, thats why lol
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
KHASH - I agree with u, but ur scenario of waiting to call is if u have kino/rapport.

what I AM SAYING is that if u get a # real fast within a couple of minutes (aka wats ur name, where u from, i gotta go gimme ur # kinda thing), then u MUST call ASAP so u can establish some rapport or else she wont giv a **** about who u r. Do you get wat im sayin pimp?
Misunderstood u there. if that is what u mean, then i feel ya :rockon:
 

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girls also flake if their friends advise them to not go out with a stranger who just got her #....stupid c0ckblockers!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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