"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is why COLLEGE'S have more WOMEN then MEN

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This is from an article I came accross......
"As a matter of fact, more women are in college and universities than men. But if you were to compare the AVERAGE guy’s experience with college life and the AVERAGE girl’s, you’d quickly see
why college might be a more pleasant experience for women than for men.

And that’s the UNDERSTATEMENT of the century.

Most guys in college can barely get a date. Most women in college can’t keep up with all the offers. Does anybody in their right mind think that this has no effect on morale, motivation, stress, and persistence?"

So much truth in one quote. The rest of the artlce is here.
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/the_dating_wizard/secret-that-women-take-to-their-graves.htm
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tis true. Even the ugly chicks get more attention that they can deal with.
 

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itishe said:
Tis true. Even the ugly chicks get more attention that they can deal with.
I know man!! It's just crazy. Thats why women CRY on graduation day.LOL. Becuase once college is over the tables slowly turn.
 

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I noticed that too, but who do they date if not college kids?

Older guys? Mucho biker school drop outs?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Babnik said:
I noticed that too, but who do they date if not college kids?

Older guys? Mucho biker school drop outs?
A couple of my ex-girlfriends of mine are in college, they're not the best looking broads but they have great personalities. They get so much attention by AFC college guys that it's unbelievable. You'd think they were the last ***** on earth.
 

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Babnik said:
I noticed that too, but who do they date if not college kids?

Older guys? Mucho biker school drop outs?
I think they are ALL fvcking the same guys. The guys with the highest social status get MOST of the play...while the rest of the males are sh!t out of luck. At least those other males wont get ALL those STDs. LOL
 

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rakishness said:
I think they are ALL fvcking the same guys. The guys with the highest social status get MOST of the play...while the rest of the males are sh!t out of luck. At least those other males wont get ALL those STDs. LOL
Eh.. in college there is no social status. Frats may have that but only a small portion of college are frats.

If what you say is true then there are like 10 guys who are seriously having sex with HUNDREDS of women and those women are physically lined up in front of them.

It doesn't work this way. Its not high school, there is no real social status here. Too many people and NOBODY is popular.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Babnik said:
Eh.. in college there is no social status. Frats may have that but only a small portion of college are frats.

If what you say is true then there are like 10 guys who are seriously having sex with HUNDREDS of women and those women are physically lined up in front of them.

It doesn't work this way. Its not high school, there is no real social status here. Too many people and NOBODY is popular.
I see what your saying.....BUT...I went to a big University. And believe me...there was social status at my school. If you were in a FRAT or on a college sports team(in particular basketball)...you had ALOT of social status. And girls basically threw themselves at those guys.
But if you go to a community college or even a smaller college that didn't worship the athletes or have frats...then what I'm saying wont mean much to you.
 

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I doubt seriously that the women in college get more dates than guys. In fact, if there's more gals than guys, men will get more dates. There will be x dates at a university in a year, divided amongst y women, so x/y dates per woman. But, z men, so x/z dates per man. x/z > x/y. Look around, women aren't dating much off campus; it happens occasionally, but their mainstay are the college guys. So, can't add much to womens dating via off campus stuff.

I really think it's that guys approach women, and it fluffs the women's egos, whereas men deal with rejection. But, the counter to that is that a man chooses who he approaches, and is free to approach another, whereas a woman has to wait.
 

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That's why you have to act like a player in college (aka the prize aka the jerk aka the pimp) and ***** will literally throw itself at you. no joke. But seriously i hope this thread is a joke? College= ***** fest
 

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College 101: All Money. All Action. It's 100% image-oriented bullsh1t going for the females.
 

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rakishness said:
I think they are ALL fvcking the same guys. The guys with the highest social status get MOST of the play...while the rest of the males are sh!t out of luck. At least those other males wont get ALL those STDs. LOL
Nailed it.

BTW, the only advantage of celibacy is the STD-free status that one would get from it. Still, not a good reason to brag about. :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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