"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OMFG no! That's not cool. Yeah, you've had kids, great, but please don't try to glamourise stretch marks and baby tummy.
It's a fact of life for most women but it doesn't mean the world has to look at it.
 

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I met up with an ex of mine and a good friend of hers almost two years ago, around Summer of 2013. Last time I saw her friend was when my ex and I split up, Summer of 2009. I'll never forget the shock I forced myself to suppress when I saw her. A solid 7 when my ex an I broke up, she was now a 5 at best despite being only 31 or 32. All those years of chronic chain smoking, late night drinking and greasy food finally caught up to her. I swear I could hear her acknowledging what I was seeing, telling me "I know..." just by the look in her eyes. So depressing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fact of the matter is, everyone ages man or woman. To say that all women are repulsive as they age is a bit hypocritical when ive seen lots of male celebrities who were absolutely gorgeous turn fat and bald with age.....and everyday men too I might add. Get used to it, everyone ages and wont be as great as they were when they were young. Its called LIFE gentlemen
 

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Ahhh SS, where you come for the advice but stay for the champagne quality real talk.

djgirl said:
Get used to it, everyone ages and wont be as great as they were when they were young. Its called LIFE gentlemen
Yeah it's called LIFE. Get used to it sh!tlords!!!


djgirl said:
Fact of the matter is, everyone ages man or woman.
Ummm read a book gentlemen it's a FACT everyone ages !! I fvcking love SCIENCE!!
 

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djgirl said:
Fact of the matter is, everyone ages man or woman. To say that all women are repulsive as they age is a bit hypocritical

everyone does age , the problem is only one sex has an unquenchable thirst for attention and is virtually 100% dependent on they're looks to progress through life :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bingo-Player said:
everyone does age , the problem is only one sex has an unquenchable thirst for attention and is virtually 100% dependent on they're looks to progress through life :rolleyes:
yeah nah not always mate. I don't rely on men to survive at all and I know many other women who don't either... putting all women in the one category that we use looks to get what we want or to survive is a bit Ludacris.... lol really? just because you know one or two women or a minority who do it doesn't mean were all like that...

hell I work and make my own money and do my own thing to survive, I don't rely on my appearance to get me through, I put in my hard yards and do what I have to do, I don't rely on any man.....

That's the problem with sites like this, I can almost guarantee the majority of you are all jaded men or closeted gays or worst of all controlling men who just want power over everything so you pick on every little flaw women have to make yourselves feel better an feel just :rolleyes:

Youre all entitled to your views as am I, but putting ALL women into your pathetic categories is plain silly. Its like me saying ALL men are *****s who just want s.e.x and power....I don't because I know your not all like that
 

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djgirl said:
That's the problem with sites like this, I can almost guarantee the majority of you are all jaded men or closeted gays or worst of all controlling men who just want power over everything
:crackup: lol at a "controlling" man being worse than a faggot to a common potato still on gyno-time.

"Controlling"? NOOOOooooooooo anything but that!! :nervous: *Sh!ts pants*

Sodomized by another man. Contracts hepatits A & B, intestinal parasites and HIV...But hey at least I'm not "controlling" ,phew that was lucky.
 

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Shaming tactics from the resident female troll.
 

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lol shaking tactics? How's about the title of this thread and the comments from the male trolls?!

Ofcourse I must be a troll because I'm a female giving a genuine opinion on a male dominated forum? Ha yes of course.

Good and bad in both sexes that's all I'm trying to say. You can sit behind your keyboard and say that women are ugly with age or that all women use their looks to get what they want but at the end of the day you need to keep in mind that NOT ALL women are like this, yes I believe their are women like that around which give us all a bad name to femininity but everyone ages and won't be as great as we were when we were young, it's life. As I said men get fat and bald with age too, not all but some. It is what it is.
 

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djgirl said:
Youre all entitled to your views as am I, but putting ALL women into your pathetic categories is plain silly. Its like me saying ALL men are *****s who just want s.e.x and power....I don't because I know your not all like that

nope we definitely are all like that

and the ones who aren't are blue pill die hards that have supplicated so badly to there female partners demands they have grown vaginas

i don't live in cuckoo land love , I've seen way too many train wreck marriages , broken men and crazy women to believe it is a merely a case of "categorisation "

the fact of the matter is most modern relationships are built out of desperation between two people who don't really understand what the fvck they want from the other
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bingo-Player said:
nope we definitely are all like that

and the ones who aren't are blue pill die hards that have supplicated so badly to there female partners demands they have grown vaginas

i don't live in cuckoo land love , I've seen way too many train wreck marriages , broken men and crazy women to believe it is a merely a case of "categorisation "

the fact of the matter is most modern relationships are built out of desperation between two people who don't really understand what the fvck they want from the other
So explain to me then if all men are like this, then who are men to turn around and fault women for their flaws? What about all the women who get used and abused or the poor women in those corrupt countries that get treated like sh1t? How do you justify that?? Not saying that women are angels because their not but if can have flaws why can't women?

And yeah I have to agree with your other points, however it's not always men that are left broken, there are some women that get taken to the dirt too
 

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We aren’t faltering anyone we are simply telling it how it is

this is a male pickup forum designed to help guys understand women , if you don’t like it you don’t need to be on here

a lot of guys on here are fed up women relentlessly playing games for absolutely no reason other than to fulfil their ego’s

men will generally be a 100 times more straight up and to the point when it comes to dating and if women where the same then there would be no animosity between the sexes

unfortunately the men here have taken the stance that if you want to play games we are more than prepared to show you how it’s played

il agree that women can get treated badly too but that is more circumstantial and will usually only occur when the relationship is in full swing and even then the woman will always have the option to walk away
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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