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Me too.Meisterman said:
I clicked on the link,went to the profile of whoever it was who wrote that post.
Not saying it wasn't a woman,but it's kinda odd how when I clicked on the profile,under gender it said,"Rather not say".
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is what women want
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I clicked on the link,went to the profile of whoever it was who wrote that post.
Not saying it wasn't a woman,but it's kinda odd how when I clicked on the profile,under gender it said,"Rather not say".
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
All women care about (and have ever cared about) is what a man can do for them. I see dainty faggish men dating hot women. I see beta losers dating hot women. I see men so small and skinny you could knock them over with a feather dating hot women.
All this trying to "figure women out so you can become what they want" is a form of pedestalization. Elevating women to high status they are not worthy off. What women care about is what YOU as a man can do for THEM as a woman.
At different stages of life women have different goals. They will date, suck and f*ck those men who best help them achieve and realize those goals. Once her priorities change, so will her interest in the man. Simple as that.
PER EXAMPLE:
Early 20's woman wants wild ride = Dates bad boy douche because he is "exciting"
Late 20's woman wants intellectual "foodie" guy to impress her pretentious friends = Dates nerdy hipster
LATE late 20's woman wants stability = Dates beta faggot with good job in hopes of getting married.
Early 30's woman wants kids = Gets married to loyal and easy to control beta faggot so she can have kids in a rush (all her friends are pregnant
)
Late 30's woman is bored with stability and boring beta sex = Divorces beta loser idiot clown, takes half his cash, takes his kids and goes back to f*cking bad boy douches. :crackup:
All this trying to "figure women out so you can become what they want" is a form of pedestalization. Elevating women to high status they are not worthy off. What women care about is what YOU as a man can do for THEM as a woman.
At different stages of life women have different goals. They will date, suck and f*ck those men who best help them achieve and realize those goals. Once her priorities change, so will her interest in the man. Simple as that.
PER EXAMPLE:
Early 20's woman wants wild ride = Dates bad boy douche because he is "exciting"
Late 20's woman wants intellectual "foodie" guy to impress her pretentious friends = Dates nerdy hipster
LATE late 20's woman wants stability = Dates beta faggot with good job in hopes of getting married.
Early 30's woman wants kids = Gets married to loyal and easy to control beta faggot so she can have kids in a rush (all her friends are pregnant
)Late 30's woman is bored with stability and boring beta sex = Divorces beta loser idiot clown, takes half his cash, takes his kids and goes back to f*cking bad boy douches. :crackup:
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Post of the Year!Poon King said:All women care about (and have ever cared about) is what a man can do for them. I see dainty faggish men dating hot women. I see beta losers dating hot women. I see men so small and skinny you could knock them over with a feather dating hot women.
All this trying to "figure women out so you can become what they want" is a form of pedestalization. Elevating women to high status they are not worthy off. What women care about is what YOU as a man can do for THEM as a woman.
At different stages of life women have different goals. They will date, suck and f*ck those men who best help them achieve and realize those goals. Once her priorities change, so will her interest in the man. Simple as that.
PER EXAMPLE:
Early 20's woman wants wild ride = Dates bad boy douche because he is "exciting"
Late 20's woman wants intellectual "foodie" guy to impress her pretentious friends = Dates nerdy hipster
LATE late 20's woman wants stability = Dates beta faggot with good job in hopes of getting married.
Early 30's woman wants kids = Gets married to loyal and easy to control beta faggot so she can have kids in a rush (all her friends are pregnant
Late 30's woman is bored with stability and boring beta sex = Divorces beta loser idiot clown, takes half his cash, takes his kids and goes back to f*cking bad boy douches. :crackup:
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That one happened to one of my boys recently
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Cool story bro.Poon King said:
What is it about Disney and its view on life the company reinforces regularly? Sure they've had some well-deserved triumphs, butHeisenburger said:
I've known people who grew up attached to these films as if they belong to them, with their cute animals and spins on classic stories. No one believes 'beauty comes from inside' though.
Poon King for the win.
You know those women that post pictures of their fat bodies and profess to love how they look? They don't really, but they love hearing anything that reinforces their delusions.
In addition to what El Payaso said, people actually want to be lied to. It sounds crazy, but it's absolutely true.sambwoy said:
You know those women that post pictures of their fat bodies and profess to love how they look? They don't really, but they love hearing anything that reinforces their delusions.
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PER EXAMPLE:
Early 20's woman wants wild ride = Dates bad boy douche because he is "exciting"
Late 20's woman wants intellectual "foodie" guy to impress her pretentious friends = Dates nerdy hipster
LATE late 20's woman wants stability = Dates beta faggot with good job in hopes of getting married.
Early 30's woman wants kids = Gets married to loyal and easy to control beta faggot so she can have kids in a rush (all her friends are pregnant )
Late 30's woman is bored with stability and boring beta sex = Divorces beta loser idiot clown, takes half his cash, takes his kids and goes back to f*cking bad boy douches. :crackup:[/QUOTE]
This. This is also why you can bang almost any single chick in their 30's. They see that wall coming and will cling to you like stink on sh!t.
Early 20's woman wants wild ride = Dates bad boy douche because he is "exciting"
Late 20's woman wants intellectual "foodie" guy to impress her pretentious friends = Dates nerdy hipster
LATE late 20's woman wants stability = Dates beta faggot with good job in hopes of getting married.
Early 30's woman wants kids = Gets married to loyal and easy to control beta faggot so she can have kids in a rush (all her friends are pregnant
)Late 30's woman is bored with stability and boring beta sex = Divorces beta loser idiot clown, takes half his cash, takes his kids and goes back to f*cking bad boy douches. :crackup:[/QUOTE]
This. This is also why you can bang almost any single chick in their 30's. They see that wall coming and will cling to you like stink on sh!t.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
