"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
this is what passes for a 30 year old woman today.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Paintballguy
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dear god... sounds like a toddler.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
I posted a thread about that yesterday.
They are both fools.
The female is a fool for acting in such a way while he is driving. That's not fair to other drivers and puts other people at risk. It's selfish behavior.
The male is a fool for broadcasting it online. Why? Because the internet never forgets. It's personal family business and it should be kept private. The end. This isn't about being a bigger person.
If he were videotaping it so she could watch herself when she's calmed down and use it as a springboard to talk about appropriate behavior, then great. But the very fact that he posted it so he could get some sort of validation from complete strangers online is foolish. You don't post things online of other people without their consent. I highly doubt she consented to having that posted online.
If he wanted to genuinely demonstrate her behavior, videotaping wasn't really necessary. He could have just recorded the conversation and posted that, and left her (and his) appearance out of it.
The female is a fool for acting in such a way while he is driving. That's not fair to other drivers and puts other people at risk. It's selfish behavior.
The male is a fool for broadcasting it online. Why? Because the internet never forgets. It's personal family business and it should be kept private. The end. This isn't about being a bigger person.
If he were videotaping it so she could watch herself when she's calmed down and use it as a springboard to talk about appropriate behavior, then great. But the very fact that he posted it so he could get some sort of validation from complete strangers online is foolish. You don't post things online of other people without their consent. I highly doubt she consented to having that posted online.
If he wanted to genuinely demonstrate her behavior, videotaping wasn't really necessary. He could have just recorded the conversation and posted that, and left her (and his) appearance out of it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
pinkfl he said in the video that "She messages/talks about how selfish he is to her friends."
This video was meant toward her friends to show them that he was pretty much doing his everyday thing and when she didn't get her way she would throw a b*tch fit. It just happened to go viral.
Also look at the comments on that video my god.. I really feel bad for this guy.
This video was meant toward her friends to show them that he was pretty much doing his everyday thing and when she didn't get her way she would throw a b*tch fit. It just happened to go viral.
Also look at the comments on that video my god.. I really feel bad for this guy.
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My dads wife pulls this **** constantly
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Saw this on reddit got a good lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.