"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
this is what passes for a 30 year old woman today.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
dear god... sounds like a toddler.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
I posted a thread about that yesterday.
They are both fools.
The female is a fool for acting in such a way while he is driving. That's not fair to other drivers and puts other people at risk. It's selfish behavior.
The male is a fool for broadcasting it online. Why? Because the internet never forgets. It's personal family business and it should be kept private. The end. This isn't about being a bigger person.
If he were videotaping it so she could watch herself when she's calmed down and use it as a springboard to talk about appropriate behavior, then great. But the very fact that he posted it so he could get some sort of validation from complete strangers online is foolish. You don't post things online of other people without their consent. I highly doubt she consented to having that posted online.
If he wanted to genuinely demonstrate her behavior, videotaping wasn't really necessary. He could have just recorded the conversation and posted that, and left her (and his) appearance out of it.
The female is a fool for acting in such a way while he is driving. That's not fair to other drivers and puts other people at risk. It's selfish behavior.
The male is a fool for broadcasting it online. Why? Because the internet never forgets. It's personal family business and it should be kept private. The end. This isn't about being a bigger person.
If he were videotaping it so she could watch herself when she's calmed down and use it as a springboard to talk about appropriate behavior, then great. But the very fact that he posted it so he could get some sort of validation from complete strangers online is foolish. You don't post things online of other people without their consent. I highly doubt she consented to having that posted online.
If he wanted to genuinely demonstrate her behavior, videotaping wasn't really necessary. He could have just recorded the conversation and posted that, and left her (and his) appearance out of it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
pinkfl he said in the video that "She messages/talks about how selfish he is to her friends."
This video was meant toward her friends to show them that he was pretty much doing his everyday thing and when she didn't get her way she would throw a b*tch fit. It just happened to go viral.
Also look at the comments on that video my god.. I really feel bad for this guy.
This video was meant toward her friends to show them that he was pretty much doing his everyday thing and when she didn't get her way she would throw a b*tch fit. It just happened to go viral.
Also look at the comments on that video my god.. I really feel bad for this guy.
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My dads wife pulls this **** constantly
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Saw this on reddit got a good lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.