A chick my friend works with, dam hot at that and 2 years older than me, is showing me a ton of interest. The thing is, I've never even met her, I sent her an MS message about some joke I heard bout her and then we hit it off I guess and I got her number and texted her later (of course I waited a day and a half :woo: haha) so anyway, any advice from ya'll here? OH! And she has a bf, who is actually younger than me, so that seems to nix the age element but brings in an element of her having a boyfriend. She has never mentioned him once to me though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This is what I consider a challenge
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
so what. she is just target practicing on you, shes taken man move on. Anyway its hard to date girls who are older, trust me.
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I hope she's not happy with him, cuss takin a woman from another guy ain't cool.Zerotwoonenine said:
But don't give up if she isn't. if she hasn't mention him, then pls keep trying and posts what happens, and tell me how you got to her, i really want to try out what you did if you succeeded.No, she most definetly is not happy with him. She finally mentioned him to me the other day. I don't think messin' with another guys girl is cool either, except in this situation, she was saying a lot of stuff. And yep I'll keep you all up to date and if this goes well, expect some good tips.
:woo:
-dns
:woo:
-dns
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Zerotwoonenine said:
No it's not.
I was in 6th grade and my gf at the time was in 8th...
10th grade I had 3 senior girls diggin on me.
Last year (11th grade) I had a 2nd year senior (19 year old) hangin' from my nuts.
Granted, it's tougher than pulling the younger girls, but the old ones are no different. Just spit game.
BTW, talking on the internet and sh*t doesn't show interest. She isn't really a "challenge" because you haven't really done anything. No "game engagement" as I like to call it. Until you hang out, you aren't sh*t.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.