A chick my friend works with, dam hot at that and 2 years older than me, is showing me a ton of interest. The thing is, I've never even met her, I sent her an MS message about some joke I heard bout her and then we hit it off I guess and I got her number and texted her later (of course I waited a day and a half :woo: haha) so anyway, any advice from ya'll here? OH! And she has a bf, who is actually younger than me, so that seems to nix the age element but brings in an element of her having a boyfriend. She has never mentioned him once to me though.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is what I consider a challenge
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
so what. she is just target practicing on you, shes taken man move on. Anyway its hard to date girls who are older, trust me.
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I hope she's not happy with him, cuss takin a woman from another guy ain't cool.Zerotwoonenine said:
But don't give up if she isn't. if she hasn't mention him, then pls keep trying and posts what happens, and tell me how you got to her, i really want to try out what you did if you succeeded.No, she most definetly is not happy with him. She finally mentioned him to me the other day. I don't think messin' with another guys girl is cool either, except in this situation, she was saying a lot of stuff. And yep I'll keep you all up to date and if this goes well, expect some good tips.
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-dns
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Zerotwoonenine said:
No it's not.
I was in 6th grade and my gf at the time was in 8th...
10th grade I had 3 senior girls diggin on me.
Last year (11th grade) I had a 2nd year senior (19 year old) hangin' from my nuts.
Granted, it's tougher than pulling the younger girls, but the old ones are no different. Just spit game.
BTW, talking on the internet and sh*t doesn't show interest. She isn't really a "challenge" because you haven't really done anything. No "game engagement" as I like to call it. Until you hang out, you aren't sh*t.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.