THIS is what happens when you are desperate to find a mate!

[Oxide]

I was looking over the Russian Brides site, to see how the demographics have changed in the last decade (I know few Russian women who are now in US)

There is a little FAQ about Russian women on this site - I was reading a part of it and couldn't believe my eyes.

Brace yourselves, this is the advice you receive when you are DESEPRATE and NOT ADEPT AT DEALING WITH WOMEN.

The attitude to money on behalf of FSU women may seem unusual to you. A lot of western men are afraid of scam and that fear creates serious problems in communicating with FSU women. If you really like a girl you shouldn't be afraid to seem too romantic. Send her flowers, candies or presents to show your affection. Of course words are important, but your deeds are the best token of your feelings. At the same time we recommend to avoid sending money directly to ladies if you have never met, even if the reason seem cogent enough (illness, visa, travel expences, internet expences, small salary etc).

But don't be shocked if she expects you to pay for her at the restaurant, theatre or for a taxi. Paying for a woman at a date is a normal way of courteous behaviour. FSU women expect it from a man and there aren't any "evil intentions". It's a typical dating rule in FSU. If you don't want to pay for her at a restaurant or you don't want to pay for your correspondence, she will never believe that your intentions are serious. If a woman doesn't allow you to pay for her meal or other expences, most liklely she is not ready for a serious relationship yet and doesn't want to feel some obligations towards you.

And there is one more thing that you should know about money and FSU women. FSU women are accustomed to be the binding force in the family and in most families the women take almost complete responsibility for managing the household (probably because practically all money are spent for food, clothes and home expences), that's why Russian husbands give their salary to their wives as the matter of course, because the family budget is usually common and is managed also by the wife. Let it not confuse or shock you. It can be different in your family of course.

Unfortunately constant lack of finance and frequent economical crises haven't taught Russian women to plan a budget. And sometimes when there is money it is often spent in a hasty way under the influence of moment wishes or urgent needs. That is one of the most frequent reasons for misunderstanding in international families. You will have to find a happy medium in order not to let your girlfriend use you without a shame and at the same time you mustn't seem too greedy or being unable to enjoy life. For instance don't be surprised when your girlfriend orders a big portion of ice-cream but doesn't eat it even to a half. Big portion brings more pleasure but the girl can't eat a lot because she wants to stay in a good shape. Such girl DOES NOT blow off your money, she just tries to enjoy the time spent with you.

Now, I am Russian and I can tell you - 95% of this is COMPLETE BULLSH1T. It is all about how you treat women in general, and since Russia is catching up with US, you can treat the women there pretty much the same way as women here. DON'T LET PEOPLE DELUDE YOU, thank your lucky stars for you have found the true way.

link

http://www.russian-women.net/russianfacts.shtml

 

[SamePendo]

Well, it's a mail bride site of sorts now isn't it? One wouldn't expect it to tell you to not always pay and all that. Guys shouldn't be doing that in the first place, they're beta males that can't get poonany on their own town.


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So, you were checking the demographics then?

 

[ElChoclo]

Those sites never imply that you are desperate, they suggest that it is perfectly normal to search for a wife from another country via the internet.

Would you rather have a Russian girl or an American girl?

 

[aelux]

lol a former coach once said "mail order brides are a time bomb: they're hot, they cook, clean and fuk then they start watching oprah and take half your loot."