Philippe Schlichting
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is what below AFC looks like
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Gay people are not AFC. They're gay. The label AFC can't even apply.
Philippe Schlichting
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Gay people are wbAFC which makes them think that having sex with men was okay.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
Maybe. I dunno. Gay people seem to just not have any desire for girls, and that's okay with me, because most gay guys could probably steal any girl from you if they wanted considering how much they know about women (they spend all of their time with them).
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
See, I have a theory that gayness is actually a treatable mental disorder like a fetish created by childhood trauma (it was in the psychiatric manual until 1974 supported by numerous studies), but talking about it will get me into trouble
foreverAFC
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picking on gay guys is kinda AFC
*Darth crawls under his bed and cries at his AFC-ness*
No, actually I wasn't picking on homosexuals, just stating my opinion that it is not a "gender identity" but rather a complex psychological issue that is potentially treatable.
Ah, screw it. This is a boring argument anyway. Yes, actually picking on homosexuals is retarded, I agree with you. And mean-spirited. I'd never do it.
No, actually I wasn't picking on homosexuals, just stating my opinion that it is not a "gender identity" but rather a complex psychological issue that is potentially treatable.
Ah, screw it. This is a boring argument anyway. Yes, actually picking on homosexuals is retarded, I agree with you. And mean-spirited. I'd never do it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.