"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AzN KniGhT

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http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=21784

look at this thread man......i asked a relevant question...i got stupid little insults.....just read.....i was protecting myself from them because i was insulted....i hate that kind of situations because i can kill people with words and it's not fair i get banned for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You may have asked a relevant question, but you didn't ask it in a clear manner. People were obviously confused by your type of speech.

I apologize if I don't spend all day in a chat room, so I don't get your internet lingo.

Try speaking in english, and being clear about what you are asking in your posts.

People complained that they couldn't understand you. YOU started the insults by mocking us for not comprehending your ebonics-like shorthand.

Oh, and don't whine to the mods. It's pathetic.
 
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