Jack Hensy
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The only "game" you will ever need is .....self-esteem.
What is self-esteem? Self-esteem is loving and accepting yourself despite your failures or successes with women, careers, money and life.
Your best work is when you are not trying. Things just flow when you have self-esteem.
When you raise your self-esteem then depression, loneliness and worry fade away. You must believe you are your greatest fan. Do not care what people think of you or whether they like you or not. You must believe that satisfaction does not come from having meaningful relationships with others.
High self-esteem comes from having a meaningful relationship with yourself. Accepting yourself 200%. Accept all your limitations, flaws, and failures in life. When you can do that -- others will accept them too and be fine with them too. When you are nervous, you make others nervous. When you are happy, you make others happy. The world is a reflection of you.
You really are your own best friend or your own worst enemy.
Self-esteem is not confidence --- because confidence is just something "you excel at."
I've known many moviestars who excel at their acting craft and make millions of dollars lighting up a screen --- but they are miserable on the inside. They drown away their sorrows in alcohol and drugs. Many actors/actresses have confidence, but no self-esteem.
When you have self esteem you accept all your flaws and failures and you are fine with it. When you get rejected it feels bad, but it does not break you. When you lose a job, you are disappointed but you don't let it faze you, you learn from it and move on.
When a woman humiliates you or rejects you -- you click your heels and walk off in the opposite direction to meet someone else. Self-esteem moves mountains. Confidence is limited.
How to raise Self-Esteem?
Get involved with your true passions and hobbies
Think positively about yourself and your flaws all the time
Build a loving relationship with yourself
Spend time alone and do not need anyone or anything
Steps to meeting women while having high self esteem
-Smile
-Say hello
-Flirt
-Challenge them
Being too serious, dull, and heavy is a turn off.(insecure behavior) Ignore your ego.
LIGHTEN UP and SMILE otherwise others wont know where you are coming from.(self-esteem)
If you make a fool of yourself and get put down. So what? If you are outgoing you will get shot down and be rejected. You only have one life to live ….so who cares?
Confront your fears instead of always playing it safe. Girls who act nasty often feel insecure. Don't get defensive or sarcastic. Just flirt with another girl next you and keep your cool. She may come back around. You won because you didn't let her get under your skin.(self-esteem)
Again, if someone gives you a hard time – turn around, click your heels, and walk off in the other direction. Soon they will be chasing you. Don't be dragged down from someone else's unpleasantness.
Dating involves a lot of stress and hard work. It's uncomfortable to face rejection. But with self-esteem you can take the punches and move on without being fazed because you accept yourself 200%.
Looking for a companion, a relationship or “one night stand” is not shameful or embarrassing.
Keep in mind----When you are hot, you are hot. When you are not, you are not.
Moods, outlook, self-esteem, and energy levels appears to oscillate. In situations like this it means to take a break and get to know yourself again and work on your self-esteem.
Self-esteem is the only thing you need to game anything in life.
What is self-esteem? Self-esteem is loving and accepting yourself despite your failures or successes with women, careers, money and life.
Your best work is when you are not trying. Things just flow when you have self-esteem.
When you raise your self-esteem then depression, loneliness and worry fade away. You must believe you are your greatest fan. Do not care what people think of you or whether they like you or not. You must believe that satisfaction does not come from having meaningful relationships with others.
High self-esteem comes from having a meaningful relationship with yourself. Accepting yourself 200%. Accept all your limitations, flaws, and failures in life. When you can do that -- others will accept them too and be fine with them too. When you are nervous, you make others nervous. When you are happy, you make others happy. The world is a reflection of you.
You really are your own best friend or your own worst enemy.
Self-esteem is not confidence --- because confidence is just something "you excel at."
I've known many moviestars who excel at their acting craft and make millions of dollars lighting up a screen --- but they are miserable on the inside. They drown away their sorrows in alcohol and drugs. Many actors/actresses have confidence, but no self-esteem.
When you have self esteem you accept all your flaws and failures and you are fine with it. When you get rejected it feels bad, but it does not break you. When you lose a job, you are disappointed but you don't let it faze you, you learn from it and move on.
When a woman humiliates you or rejects you -- you click your heels and walk off in the opposite direction to meet someone else. Self-esteem moves mountains. Confidence is limited.
How to raise Self-Esteem?
Get involved with your true passions and hobbies
Think positively about yourself and your flaws all the time
Build a loving relationship with yourself
Spend time alone and do not need anyone or anything
Steps to meeting women while having high self esteem
-Smile
-Say hello
-Flirt
-Challenge them
Being too serious, dull, and heavy is a turn off.(insecure behavior) Ignore your ego.
LIGHTEN UP and SMILE otherwise others wont know where you are coming from.(self-esteem)
If you make a fool of yourself and get put down. So what? If you are outgoing you will get shot down and be rejected. You only have one life to live ….so who cares?
Confront your fears instead of always playing it safe. Girls who act nasty often feel insecure. Don't get defensive or sarcastic. Just flirt with another girl next you and keep your cool. She may come back around. You won because you didn't let her get under your skin.(self-esteem)
Again, if someone gives you a hard time – turn around, click your heels, and walk off in the other direction. Soon they will be chasing you. Don't be dragged down from someone else's unpleasantness.
Dating involves a lot of stress and hard work. It's uncomfortable to face rejection. But with self-esteem you can take the punches and move on without being fazed because you accept yourself 200%.
Looking for a companion, a relationship or “one night stand” is not shameful or embarrassing.
Keep in mind----When you are hot, you are hot. When you are not, you are not.
Moods, outlook, self-esteem, and energy levels appears to oscillate. In situations like this it means to take a break and get to know yourself again and work on your self-esteem.
Self-esteem is the only thing you need to game anything in life.
