"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is the list I gotta live by....

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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STOP TALKING.

Start doing. Start on page 36 of the DJ Bible, provided via the link at the bottom of the page.

There are no excuses left, stop wallowing in self pity and demoralizing yourself, you're becoming a toxic force to yourself and the community.

Make it happen.

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Response to post #3, because its not worth wasting a post.

"I lack XXXX"
"I don't have YYYY"
"I can't do ZZZZ"

Do you see whats going on here dude? You're reaffirming how pathetic you are, and thus perpetuating it.

I'm the same age as you. Less than a year ago I was JUST LIKE YOU, I only focused on my negatives and felt that I was stuck. Fast forward to today, I just put a down payment on a beautiful house in Century City, have been hired at a very respectable Asset Management firm and am, as Professor Leykis says: "Getting more ass than a toilet seat."

It's really not fvcking hard. You're making wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more complicated and convoluted than it is.

Are you in college? Real college, not community.

I'm 22 years old. Graduated with an Environmental Economics Degree from Cal. GET YOUR ASS BACK IN SCHOOL MAN!

You know, maybe you should call Leykis this Thursday and ask him to give you the boot in the ass you seem to need so desperately.
 
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One thing that struck me, I gotta say, is a lack of sexuality, that may be my biggest problem.

No, I'm not in college. Was in community. The whole education thing has screwed me up due to setbacks.

Yeah, I keep creating my own negative reality, I feel so entrenched in it, it is hard for me too see a way out. How old are you btw? I have been in this cycle for a long time, it has affected many parts of my life. I lack success, power, control, etc.
 
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Also, I started reading the bible, like really reading it, and man, does alot of stuff hit home.
 
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