"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is Sparta, CHUMPS!

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I hope all of you have seen the movie 300. This testosterone-pumping flick exemplifies what it is to be a man. Now, imagine a world today similar to ancient Greek. A world where there is no Internet; where there is no modern technology. A world where survival of the fittest is key. If you are not strong, you will not survive. A world where there are no excuses.

In the movie, the Spartans died for their beliefs; their passion, love, and commitment towards one another. Now, I don't think King Leonidas would mope around, whine, and cry about a girl breaking his heart. He would not put a woman in position to determine his emotional state. He will be happy and passionate about his life regardless of what X girl thinks about him.

Don't back down. 300 men will go against 50,000 Persian ground troops, but you won't make a move on that girl? They went full-force at an army over 10,000 times their size, but you hesitate when you're around this chick? You should kick yourself into a well.

Put yourself in a Spartan's... bare feet. Live. This is Sparta - Be a Spartan!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I also get naked and start rooting dudes? cause the spartans did that, too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know that pedofilia was considered the highest form of love in ancient Greece? And homosexuality was true love?

yay lets go back to the ancient greece.
 
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Sparta practiced a chaste (non sexual) form of pederasty. While the rest of greece was busy having sex with boys. What sparta did was still strange, but tame compared to the rest of greece.
 
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