"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is soooo weird....

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i know this girl jenna from a female friend of mine, we only met once in real life and we dont have that many chance to see eachother, so we only talk on msn. Even then we talk only a few times about normal things and each convo doesn't last more than 15 min.

Today she saw me at school but we didn't say hi to eachother or anything, back home on msn she said: HAHA i saw you today the moment i went on msn, then we talked and somehow our topic got onto about sex, she told me how she has high horomones and likes sex etc, we then talked about masturabation, and she even told me that she is having a period etc....

it was so weird but surprisingly i dont feel akward talking about those things to her as well. Anyways why is she talking about those stuff, it's not like we have met for a long time or talked a lot before, what is going on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She's comfortable with you; you can use this opportunity to get close with her, if you wish. She is, indirectly, giving you the green light to have sex with her; perhaps, even get into a relationship--I don't know much about her, but based on what you said, she gives off the impression of a person looking for a fvck buddy.

Don't stress yourself over it; just keep on doing what you're doing; loosen up.
 

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ya she's probably looking for a **** buddy, she told me she found the hots for her ex's best friend, and she wanted him to be her fuvk buddy but then she think he's too boring and plain so she lost interests for him, so is she making me as her fuvk buddy now?
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Life
ya she's probably looking for a **** buddy, she told me she found the hots for her ex's best friend, and she wanted him to be her fuvk buddy but then she think he's too boring and plain so she lost interests for him, so is she making me as her fuvk buddy now?
Damn bro, she's doing everything but laying infront of you with her legs spread telling you to go get it, lol.

Yes, that is what she wants, as long as you don't screw it up, lol. Lean back and act like it's no big deal...which it isn't right?
 

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today we saw eachother again in assembly but again we didn't say hi or anything we just talk to our own friends

back home on msn i started talking to her about normal stuff but she doesn't seem to be very enthusiastic, although she said she is still in her second day of her period..

is she showing flakey behavior?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DJ4Life
today we saw eachother again in assembly but again we didn't say hi or anything we just talk to our own friends

back home on msn i started talking to her about normal stuff but she doesn't seem to be very enthusiastic, although she said she is still in her second day of her period..

is she showing flakey behavior?
Just take action and go talk to her man! She is probably interested in you...what are you waiting for.
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Life
today we saw eachother again in assembly but again we didn't say hi or anything we just talk to our own friends

back home on msn i started talking to her about normal stuff but she doesn't seem to be very enthusiastic, although she said she is still in her second day of her period..

is she showing flakey behavior?
Don't login to msn for a few days, distance yourself a little, see how she reacts.
 

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i had a chance like this before but i was to unshure .and once i gatherd the balls to ask her out she lost intrest you cant keep them waiting it gives them time to look for a back up for you
 

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so guys i should play the cold reponse, distance myself or go and hit the marks while it's still hot
 

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dude she IS weird ya one of the guys is right you can not go online msn for a few days and not see her at all in school and see what her reaction is that way you can tell if she is interested in you or not
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by DJ4Life
so guys i should play the cold reponse, distance myself or go and hit the marks while it's still hot

Distance yourself, there is nothing hot to go after.

One thing you might want to start thinking about is...why does she chat you up on msn, but not in person? This may seem like a small detail to most, but trust me, there is allot more going on here than you think.
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Life
ya i dont get that too, why is that?
Any reason why she wouldn't want to be seen with you in school?? Is there a difference in social hierarchy or something?? That's the only reason I can think of why people only talk online and not in school.
 

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Dude you're ruining your chances by talking to her on msn.You are making the same mistakes I've made in the past which I still regret to an extent (luckily i found this site and made things good).

Anyways,you JUST have to talk to her in person.When I say you have to,you have to.Don't do the 'not logging on' thing,its too early right now.Things are still fine,you have a good impression with her right now,make most of it.

How can you meet each other and not talk?Dont waste your chances,go do it.Talk to her.
 

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Anyways,you JUST have to talk to her in person.When I say you have to,you have to.Don't do the 'not logging on' thing,its too early right now.Things are still fine,you have a good impression with her right now,make most of it.
Just stop talking to her on MSN and just start talking to her in person. She is probably to shy and not comfprtable enough to approach you own her own. When you see her just go talk to her in person.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wouldn't it seem like weird if i didn't talk to her in person before, and suddenly now i do?
 

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You won't get her to be your **** buddy over msn, you need to talk to her face to face, just like when you pass by her say "hi, "name here"," and give her a kiss in the cheek.
 
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