"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is SO annoying...

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Alright,

So Wednesday is pretty much the day that my friends and I hit up happy hour after work. So here I am at 12:30 bored out of my mind at the office, so I decide to text a girl to see if she wants to join...

She goes YEA YEA I'm totally game, just let me know the details. So here I am thinking NICE...this girl is going to come out, have a few drinks..Maybe I'll get her to go to dinner with me...

Then literally ALL of my boys cancel on me for one reason or another...so I told her that it would only be me and her and one of my other friends...then SHE responds back saying maybe we should just chill out at her place instead..

So I immediately get all excited, thinking I'm going to pull this chick etc....So I respond to her saying yea great idea lets do it blah blah..girl doesn't answer me till about 5...which is about 2 hours after i sent her that text. At 4, everyone in my office is gone, so I decide to walk around for a little give her a little time to get back to me...4:30 nothing, 4:45 nothing, so at this point I said fvck it I'm going home. RIGHT when I get on the bus to go home this girl hits me back saying shes leaving work in an hour she'll tell me the deal then. I told her I was on my way home and we'll rain check it..

The thing is here like I'm totally down with making girls wait on texting and stuff but NOT if your setting up a time and place to meet and what not...WTF is this girl trying to convey?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe you were too keen about meeting her at her place? Or maybe she thought it was planned that your friends couldn't make it?


You done the right thing in cancelling it because she disrespected you by keeping you waiting. She'll know better in future.


Next time you see her act normal. If you act differently she'll know why and it won't look good for you. If you act normal it tells her she doesn't really matter that much to you.
 
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slaog said:
Maybe you were too keen about meeting her at her place? Or maybe she thought it was planned that your friends couldn't make it?


You done the right thing in cancelling it because she disrespected you by keeping you waiting. She'll know better in future.


Next time you see her act normal. If you act differently she'll know why and it won't look good for you. If you act normal it tells her she doesn't really matter that much to you.
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^ what this guy said.
 
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