"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is so amazing, MUST READ

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awesome.

The things people are capable of when they have the drive.
 

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Amazing.
 

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Someone on the local cycling group posted this story a few weeks ago. It's AMAZING!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well.. I got tears in my eyes.

Amazing unselfishness
 

THE_ADDMAN

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that was beautiful. stuff like this is what gives me faith in humanity.
 

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$24.95 for a 5 minute dvd. that takes away any faith in humanity i had before running across the story.

http://www.teamhoyt.com/ordering.html
i like the quote, "short but very motivational" yeah, that motivates me to push a dude in a wheelchair for a few marathons.
 

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sparky0000 said:
$24.95 for a 5 minute dvd. that takes away any faith in humanity i had before running across the story.

http://www.teamhoyt.com/ordering.html
i like the quote, "short but very motivational" yeah, that motivates me to push a dude in a wheelchair for a few marathons.
Hopefully, it better say somewhere that they are using the funds to charity or a good cause.

I still wouldn't pay $25 for a 5-minute dvd when you can probably see it on youtube hehe (and it will probably be longer)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That brought tears to my eyes. Amazing indeed!
 
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