Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This is smalltime but what would you do?

DJ Snake Eyes

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This girl once rejected me because she thought I wanted her number to boost my ego. In a way she was puzzled as to why I was suddenly interested in her. Her firends had warned her about me because they thought I was a womaniser and whatever. But I got her number in a rather creative way (I saw it on tv; pretending to lose my voice and writing everything down instead). I guess this got her attention and that was that.
I attempted to call her at first and she wouldn't answer. But then she did and she explained that she never really answers her phone. Her friends seemed to complain about the same thing too so I figured she was telling the truth. I arranged for us to meet up and so we did. We had a good time and I used kino and C & F and she responded well to it. I wanted to K-close her but her bro turned up at a bad time.
So I left without giving away much info on when I was going to meet her next. I called her a few days later and magically she answered. I was pretty busy with work and academic commitments so I told her I'd meet her soon, but not exactly when.
A week later I found some spare time to burn and I tried calling and there was no answer. So I decided I'd try later but to forget about it for the time being. I then popped into the college and she was there. I just smiled and shook my head as I passed her and she dragged me back and explained that she couldn't return the calls (no credit). I told her to answer her phone and stop wasting my time.
So I tried for the last time.. and you bet it, no answer.

Naturally, most of you guys would shout; NEXT. But if you smell blood and you know she likes you and you know she has a bit of a chance, what do you do in this situation? She is known for not really answering her phone, so what would you do? I don't want to come off as desperate because I was already seeing someone when she came into the picture and I still am. but the excitement of a new prospect is too much to bear sometimes. What do you think? Could she be a bit of a psycho who's playing games and wants to see how far I'll go?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Evolution

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Even from reading ur post, I could already sense some desperation, and one MAJOR mistake thats holding you back.

The fact that you said, "But I got her number in a rather creative way (I saw it on tv; pretending to lose my voice and writing everything down instead). I guess this got her attention and that was that." and "I called her a few days later and magically she answered."

You don't need to get cute to get her #, "gimme your #" is all I saw to get her number. And no girl has even said no, to me.

The keyword is that ur "trying" to be successful, rather than "being" successful. In essence your trying to "fake" it, which comes off as try hard and desperate.

If your a cool guy, and got your **** together, you shouldn't have to wonder why when she answered it was "magical". By default she is suppose to answer your calls, cause you deserve it.
 

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It did dawn on me that attempting to call was being desperate. I did think that if she really wanted to then she'd answer. But I do realize that I was trying to impress when all I needed to do was keep it simple and straightforward. I'll just go along my own way and meet more girls. If theres anything there then shell return the call, but I'm on my way =], thanks Evo!
 
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