"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this is sickening

muttley

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this is from another board that i visit sometimes. This thread was posted by a girl in the discussion forum...check it out:


"Do blokes like this even exist?"


find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when
you hang up on him, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for
the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world
when you are in your sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends,
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about
you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his
friends and says, "...that's her."




That makes me sick! Thats the mindset of women in theyre 20s, this is what they expect from faggoty men. This bytches are fvkcing deluded!

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where did you find that crap?
 

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Originally posted by muttley
this is from another board that i visit sometimes. This thread was posted by a girl in the discussion forum...check it out:


"Do blokes like this even exist?"


find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when
you hang up on him, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for
the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world
when you are in your sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends,
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about
you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his
friends and says, "...that's her."
So she wants an AFC. Yup, fine. Except after a month she'll be banging someone else when he hasn't done anything other than kissing.

It's what they DO not what they SAY. We all know that!!!!!
 

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its on this board i visit , like a cutural magazine...sickening to the bone
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanks.
 

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Re: Re: this is sickening

Originally posted by aftershock
So she wants an AFC. Yup, fine. Except after a month she'll be banging someone else when he hasn't done anything other than kissing.

It's what they DO not what they SAY. We all know that!!!!!
Treu dat, i know aall about that :D
 

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I call women beutiful instead of hot. Thats about all. This girl is ugly no higher than a 6 i know the type.

Ninja out
 

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find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when
you hang up on him, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for
the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world
when you are in your sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends,
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about
you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his
friends and says, "...that's her."
beatiful is the personality - though it can be ugly.
hot is the shell. if you're getting called hot, get a new personality.

i don't get hung up on, irrelevant. - if u hang up on me, f*ck ya, ur just looking for drama.

i'll watch ya sleep, hell, i might even film ya asleep and show my buddies, thats appreciation.

i'll kiss your forhead, but i'll expect to slap my d*ck on it at other times, and for that to be cool.

the rest, the showing you off bit. normally works best if your seen and not heard. however. if you can keep your opinions and praising me to yourself. great. you can talk. just not too much. and now foul mouth.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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