"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Distant Light

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Give the kid a pat on the back for getting a handjob at 12 or 13 wateva age he is. How old are u? Why do you want to beat up the kid its your gf that gave him the handjob. I'd give that kid and hi five for that:crackup:. He sound like me when i was 12 always trying to get some puvvy and happen to get fools mate at that time. Who ever said they werent worrying about handjobs when they was 12 damn think again since i came out my moms I was looking for pusvy.

Also before I really congradulate the kid when you say locked them in what do you mean, like a playful close door and wanted a handjob and she gave it to him or, she was resisting and then was kinda forced too because she couldnt get out of there? Because when smaller I've isolated girls like that by closing the door and me feeling on her and she feeling on me.

O an another thing never fight over no fuvking girl thats the lamest thing, you fight a kid over a girl and by mistake you kill him and then now you never get any pusvy from her as if you did in the first place, so now ur in jail and she is getting slammed by some other kid. I don't care if my girl gets fuvked by the whole state and i find out I just going to leave plane and simple no need for me to get pissed off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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08aisaac

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Wow, that's a different view on the whole situation.
I personally would beat the **** out of him, but then again, my gf's about 15, I think, so that would make him 15, and me 16, so I'm fine with kicking his ass.
I guess it depends on how much you like her.
Like she could really be ****ed up for the rest of her life, chicks who are 13 should be at home, not walking the streets.
I have no solution.
Depends on the chicks.
 

Phat

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I would beat his ass.
 

Taviii

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Think about this for a second: if someone looked you up in a house and told you to give him a handjob if you want to get out what would you do?? I would brake that bastards **** if he put it in my hand.

I bet a girl would have done that to if she was in that situation, so don't be so naive to believe your girl is so innocent.
 

pr0teus

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what the hell is with the next generation ?
i remember when i was 11 - 12 i wasent thinking about getting a handjob by someone... or going around seeing girls my age flashing boobs ... for gods sake they are 11- 12 years old.... ??? thats just sooo wrong , porbably why this world is going straight to oblivion.....
Originally posted by dirtyvibe
because you didnt start puberty at that age. :eek:
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Age 12-13???? THATS NOT EVEN DEVELOPED! dude that kid couldve just looked at the pavement and the result would be the same as the girl flashing the kid.
As a matter of fact, some kids get developed too early due to pressure during the childhood. These kids sound pretty disturbed already.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by kegger
Myself Im 16. Trust me the relationship is purely platonic. My g/f is 13 and it is going to stay platonic until she is 16. I do not think they are making it up, if they are they are really good liers. I do not know yet what is going to go down but I'll let you know for sure.
God dam man you are an AFC. im 99% sure your kid gf and that other girl are lying to you
 

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i would let it go. honestly, you got cheated on man. she obviously wanted to do it because she would have refused if not. move on and forget her. take the high road and dont lower yourself to his or her level. dont fight him, dont call the cops. MAKE HIS LIFE A LIVING HELL. tell everyone about what he did. even if the girls wanted to do what they did, he STILL locked them in his garage. and then when his life is ruined and he wants to fight you, BEAT THE LIVING FVCK OUT OF HIM.
 

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Originally posted by JayCamx23
i would let it go. honestly, you got cheated on man. she obviously wanted to do it because she would have refused if not. move on and forget her. take the high road and dont lower yourself to his or her level. dont fight him, dont call the cops. MAKE HIS LIFE A LIVING HELL. tell everyone about what he did. even if the girls wanted to do what they did, he STILL locked them in his garage. and then when his life is ruined and he wants to fight you, BEAT THE LIVING FVCK OUT OF HIM.
Now I like this idea, it seems to be the best one I have read so far. This is mostly because right now I do not know which way is up. I am working now to find out more about the whole situation but am not sure what exactly happened. Thanks for all the help.
 
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