"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is probably my single, most beautiful tip.

Accension

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I give a lot of advice here, but I'm really fond of this tip.

We talk about smiling here, you know -- smile -- make eye contact and approach, but what if she doesn't even return the smile?
You can't approach right?

The logic being: if she recieves your smile, she'll recieve your approach and you've already opened her without saying a word.

We all hate being ignored and so I decided I'm going to make her smile.
I smile at her, she gives me a blank look and so I smile again, this time I draw the smile on my face in the same way you might try cheer a glum person up.

The implication being, "Hey, I'm happy and so should you."

Your second smile will be met with hers, so now make your smile genuinely happy she is smiling.
Which says, "I'm glad you're now happy because that makes me even happier."

Who said you ever needed to invent a lame situational opener just to talk to her.
I'm willing to bet, she'd now be more than happy to talk to a guy that can do just that.

Smile, be happy!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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swweeeeeet simple and I can def see it working...at my old job I would always get complimented by this cute chic (who I later found out was a MESS of a girl lol) She would say things like "Omg I always see you smiling all the time and I don't know, it just makes me feeeeel goood"
 
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