"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is one of the Smoothest pickups I've seen videoed..

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Watching his other videos, I wasn't a believer [MAINLY because this is in London where many cultures intersect and European women tend to be gullible and more open; try that in America and you're sunk I was sayin to myself while watching].

BUT this video he seduced OR hypnotized her with the pacing of Voice and the big hug for her birthday right in the middle.

This is the best video I've seen to date: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnIMeHlvPR4
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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London has much more in common with New York than Continental Europe. It is an Anglophile culture.
 

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"Can I give you a hug?"

Your not supposed to actually ask are you?

Wasn't any kino apart from the hug, which turned the tide in his favour i think.
 

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This guy is a little better than the crap videos advertised on this site. "Watch live pick-up videos"

But he is still pretty much of an idiot. He didn't do anything special for 1. 2, he was not very relaxed. He might have sounded relaxed, but he was way to determined to get an outcome. In other words, he cared about the outcome, which will ruin your flow to begin with. He was very monotone. If he hypnotised her, it was in boredom. She probably thought he was just a cool guy she might hang with some time. I doubt he fvcked her. And even if he did, she was only an HB 5 - 7. So, no real conquest happened. But as I have said, I have seen worse.

BTW, Mystery's live videos are waaaay smoother than this. Whether or not you like him, Mystery has it down.
 
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Dongfu said:
This guy is a little better than the crap videos advertised on this site. "Watch live pick-up videos"

But he is still pretty much of an idiot. He didn't do anything special for 1. 2, he was not very relaxed. He might have sounded relaxed, but he was way to determined to get an outcome. In other words, he cared about the outcome, which will ruin your flow to begin with. He was very monotone. If he hypnotised her, it was in boredom. She probably thought he was just a cool guy she might hang with some time. I doubt he fvcked her. And even if he did, she was only an HB 5 - 7. So, no real conquest happened. But as I have said, I have seen worse.

BTW, Mystery's live videos are waaaay smoother than this. Whether or not you like him, Mystery has it down.
Dude, just stop embarassing yourself. He didn't do anything special? Well what the hell are you expecting? Normal people go out, normal people talk to each other and normal people get laid. Interacting with a woman does not have to be some grand performance.

That he had the balls to approach a woman in the street immediately puts him ahead of 99 percent of guys in this "community" and he even got a number to boot. Whether he laid her in the end or not is irrelevant - he gave himself the opportunity to and he extended his social circle. Respect to that.

As for your comment on Mystery, well that just smacks of " OMG my PU Guru is better than your PU Guru!!!" :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
Dude, just stop embarassing yourself. He didn't do anything special? Well what the hell are you expecting? Normal people go out, normal people talk to each other and normal people get laid. Interacting with a woman does not have to be some grand performance.

That he had the balls to approach a woman in the street immediately puts him ahead of 99 percent of guys in this "community" and he even got a number to boot. Whether he laid her in the end or not is irrelevant - he gave himself the opportunity to and he extended his social circle. Respect to that.

As for your comment on Mystery, well that just smacks of " OMG my PU Guru is better than your PU Guru!!!" :rolleyes:

I guess your standards are a little low. If 99% of the guys on this community, as you say, would look to this approach for inspiration, then this community would be in a sorry state indeed. I know there are alot of guys in here that need help, but I would say that more than 1% could do better than this guy. Come on. :yawn:

Okay, now this is the part where you post a response defending yourself and attempt to begin a battle. Dont bother. Everyone has their opinion, and that's cool.

BTW, I dont have a guru. I simply observe stuff, and formulate my own opions. Imagine that.

:crackup: Oh, and now I get it. Your defending the English guy.
 

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SinJester said:
"Can I give you a hug?"

Your not supposed to actually ask are you?

Wasn't any kino apart from the hug, which turned the tide in his favour i think.
Dongfu said:
This guy is a little better than the crap videos advertised on this site. "Watch live pick-up videos"

But he is still pretty much of an idiot. He didn't do anything special for 1. 2, he was not very relaxed. He might have sounded relaxed, but he was way to determined to get an outcome. In other words, he cared about the outcome, which will ruin your flow to begin with. He was very monotone. If he hypnotised her, it was in boredom. She probably thought he was just a cool guy she might hang with some time. I doubt he fvcked her. And even if he did, she was only an HB 5 - 7. So, no real conquest happened. But as I have said, I have seen worse.

BTW, Mystery's live videos are waaaay smoother than this. Whether or not you like him, Mystery has it down.
I remember when I first came on to this site, I probably would have respected these opinions. I have come a long way since.

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I guess your standards are a little low. If 99% of the guys on this community, as you say, would look to this approach for inspiration, then this community would be in a sorry state indeed. I know there are alot of guys in here that need help, but I would say that more than 1% could do better than this guy. Come on. :yawn:

Okay, now this is the part where you post a response defending yourself and attempt to begin a battle. Dont bother. Everyone has their opinion, and that's cool.

BTW, I dont have a guru. I simply observe stuff, and formulate my own opions. Imagine that.

:crackup: Oh, and now I get it. Your defending the English guy.
You weren't just stating your opinion, you attacked him when you said "I guess your standards are a little low." It seems that you're not confident enough to back up your opinion, so you added the 'don't bother responding' line in a attempt not to look like an idiot if he comes back with a good response.

Btw, don't bother responding to this post to begin a battle. Everyone has their opinion, and that's cool. I simply observe stuff, and formulate my own opions. Imagine that. :D
 

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Okay, let me realign the reasoning in your response.


spesmilitis said:
You weren't just stating your opinion, you attacked him when you said "I guess your standards are a little low."
Here I was referring to my opinion about the video, not the poster.


spesmilitis said:
It seems that you're not confident enough to back up your opinion, so you added the 'don't bother responding' line in a attempt not to look like an idiot if he comes back with a good response.
I wasn't impressed with the reasoning in the first response. Therefore I said dont bother with a second, because it would likely be more of the same. Now, If he has a "good" response, I welcome it. But now you have come to his rescue instead, which raises other questions of motive and clarity on your part.

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Btw, don't bother responding to this post to begin a battle. Everyone has their opinion, and that's cool. I simply observe stuff, and formulate my own opinions. Imagine that. :D
Being that you were a little unclear about what I said, I was compelled to respond.

Question. Did you read my original post, where I stated what I thought? That is what you should have responded to. This is nothing more than a case of someone not liking what I said, taking it personally, and attacking me instead of proving me wrong. And now with your response, that makes two people.

So please, if you have anything actually inciteful about the original topic, then please respond. Fair enough.
 
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it looked like she was trying 2 get away from him to me (esp at the start). he seemed creepy. and perhaps she gave a fake name? saaaarah.

not very smooth imo.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dongfu said:
Okay, now this is the part where you post a response defending yourself and attempt to begin a battle. Dont bother. Everyone has their opinion, and that's cool.
Dongfu said:
Okay, let me realign the reasoning in your response.




Here I was referring to my opinion about the video, not the poster.




I wasn't impressed with the reasoning in the first response. Therefore I said dont bother with a second, because it would likely be more of the same. Now, If he has a "good" response, I welcome it. But now you have come to his rescue instead, which raises other questions of motive and clarity on your part.



Being that you were a little unclear about what I said, I was compelled to respond.

Question. Did you read my original post, where I stated what I thought? That is what you should have responded to. This is nothing more than a case of someone not liking what I said, taking it personally, and attacking me instead of proving me wrong. And now with your response, that makes two people.

So please, if you have anything actually inciteful about the original topic, then please respond. Fair enough.
I got you to do exactly what you told LeComteDeMonteCristo not to do. I had a feeling that you would respond, but not in a way that so perfectly contradicts your previous post.
:D :crackup: :D :crackup: :D :crackup: :D :crackup: :D :crackup:
 

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spesmilitis said:
I got you to do exactly what you told LeComteDeMonteCristo not to do. I had a feeling that you would respond, but not in a way that so perfectly contradicts your previous post.
:D :crackup: :D :crackup: :D :crackup: :D :crackup: :D :crackup:
And I wasn't counting on you replying with anything intelligent. Try the high school forum.
 

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Not very smooth, but hey! he got the number right?
And guys stop bickering, put your egos away, and start acting like DJ's. We're meant to be brothers helping eachother out, not biting each others head off. Cmon lads, we're here to learn how to tackle women, and ourselves. Let's not ruin it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Can I give you a hug?"

Your not supposed to actually ask are you?

Wasn't any kino apart from the hug, which turned the tide in his favour i think."



He opens his arms, goes in for the hug and then go "can I give you a hug", so he's not really asking ;-)
 

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I think what the first poster mistook for nervousness was actually just all part of his game, and it worked. He didnt seem too aggressive or desperate
 

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Right outta the pages of Swinggcat, he's conveying to her in the interaction that sex feels good and is as easy as taking a crap.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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