"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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countwoofoolah

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So today I think I pretty much f***ed up a fairly big job interview
Back Story
Im a skilled immigrant in the UK (south african) and to stay here I need a company to say Hi we want you (for VISA purposes).

I work for HP through a contracting company as I worked for them as an intern and they retained me - its been alot of on and off the last few months and ive been killing myself for these guys

They are only recruiting software developers for my organization and I need to come back as a standard permnanent employee , I am a systems engineer and do not programme (not that much anyway ) but im willing and open to any oppertunity so I interviewed for it

Basically they put this piece of paper in front of me and said "tell me what this programming code is doing"

long story short - definitely dont think ive got this job

but what id love to know - how would you guys handle it ? Im prettty bummed out now but ill be cool in a day or two - this I know

also thought it might be nice for some personal dev stuff NOT involving woman these days.... my opinion only :nono:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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j.619

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if you KNOW you bombed the interview, don't sweat it and just worry about what you can control.

Hopefully they liked your personality, charm, and charisma :)
 
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