"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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countwoofoolah

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So today I think I pretty much f***ed up a fairly big job interview
Back Story
Im a skilled immigrant in the UK (south african) and to stay here I need a company to say Hi we want you (for VISA purposes).

I work for HP through a contracting company as I worked for them as an intern and they retained me - its been alot of on and off the last few months and ive been killing myself for these guys

They are only recruiting software developers for my organization and I need to come back as a standard permnanent employee , I am a systems engineer and do not programme (not that much anyway ) but im willing and open to any oppertunity so I interviewed for it

Basically they put this piece of paper in front of me and said "tell me what this programming code is doing"

long story short - definitely dont think ive got this job

but what id love to know - how would you guys handle it ? Im prettty bummed out now but ill be cool in a day or two - this I know

also thought it might be nice for some personal dev stuff NOT involving woman these days.... my opinion only :nono:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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j.619

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if you KNOW you bombed the interview, don't sweat it and just worry about what you can control.

Hopefully they liked your personality, charm, and charisma :)
 
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