khaledbusiness
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Okay so hello everyone
I'm new to DJ forums but from what I've read up to now It's looking like one of the sources I want to go to when it's about the ladies
So quick description of myself with girls: I'm shy (sorry), haven't been with a lot of girls well because of the shyness factor and also because I didn't care that much about dating, I have the habit of only attaching to girls that seem out of my league but I really don't care about that and go for it anyway (which is a good thing I guess :rock: ), I also have that "fear of rejection" advantage (lol) but in the last months I just said to hell with it and I improved a lot
An other thing, I have this incredibly unbelievable luck with girls, really beautiful hot girls come my way all the time and I don't mean like in the street or this kind of ****, I mean in the school, class, relatives and all that kind of girls institutions (lol)
The problem is this, I have this aunt that used to live far away and I have met her like only 2 or 3 times when I was really young, after so many years I met her again and I didn't even recognize her, anyway I met her children (and they were a lot :crackup: ), and there I met my cousin, you know the story that she was lovely and all,
anyway I was a DJ for once in my life and acted like I didn't care and that she was a girl I can easily get (which I can't lol ), and you know what, I said hi and walked away, maaaaan I rocked it !!
after that i met her sometimes here and there generally in the family meetings, and I'm sure she likes me, she stares at me and she comes to talk to me whenever I'm alone, and also my other cousins (like big sisters to me) told me that.
So up to now everything seems to be perfect and I'm only a looser if I can't get her, well I found out that she haven't dated anyone before and that she's really shy, she's 16 which is not that terrible in our country, but again it creates a problem for me
she's my cousin, and I love her as a cousin more than a girlfriend by a lot, but still I want her to be mine, so now I don't know if I should ask her out, because I don't know if she's okay with the entire dating for her age and I don't want to be rejected for that, my big sisters aka other cousins, told me to go for it anyway so I tried to do that, and now every time I'm with her I just get that creepy fear and just freeze, I know that I'm not good with talking to girls but I manage to do it however with this girl I just lose it, so here comes the BIG STUPID question that you hear all the time:
How do I ask her out? or at least how can I get her opinion on this subject?
Please guys any tips on how can I spice it up with her a bit knowing that I don't want to make her uncomfortable, also she still lives far so if she would be my girlfriend I would only meet her like twice a month but I don't care about that now
P.S: in our traditions it's okay to marry cousins so please no talking about that subject
I'm new to DJ forums but from what I've read up to now It's looking like one of the sources I want to go to when it's about the ladies
So quick description of myself with girls: I'm shy (sorry), haven't been with a lot of girls well because of the shyness factor and also because I didn't care that much about dating, I have the habit of only attaching to girls that seem out of my league but I really don't care about that and go for it anyway (which is a good thing I guess :rock: ), I also have that "fear of rejection" advantage (lol) but in the last months I just said to hell with it and I improved a lot
An other thing, I have this incredibly unbelievable luck with girls, really beautiful hot girls come my way all the time and I don't mean like in the street or this kind of ****, I mean in the school, class, relatives and all that kind of girls institutions (lol)
The problem is this, I have this aunt that used to live far away and I have met her like only 2 or 3 times when I was really young, after so many years I met her again and I didn't even recognize her, anyway I met her children (and they were a lot :crackup: ), and there I met my cousin, you know the story that she was lovely and all,
anyway I was a DJ for once in my life and acted like I didn't care and that she was a girl I can easily get (which I can't lol ), and you know what, I said hi and walked away, maaaaan I rocked it !!
after that i met her sometimes here and there generally in the family meetings, and I'm sure she likes me, she stares at me and she comes to talk to me whenever I'm alone, and also my other cousins (like big sisters to me) told me that.
So up to now everything seems to be perfect and I'm only a looser if I can't get her, well I found out that she haven't dated anyone before and that she's really shy, she's 16 which is not that terrible in our country, but again it creates a problem for me
she's my cousin, and I love her as a cousin more than a girlfriend by a lot, but still I want her to be mine, so now I don't know if I should ask her out, because I don't know if she's okay with the entire dating for her age and I don't want to be rejected for that, my big sisters aka other cousins, told me to go for it anyway so I tried to do that, and now every time I'm with her I just get that creepy fear and just freeze, I know that I'm not good with talking to girls but I manage to do it however with this girl I just lose it, so here comes the BIG STUPID question that you hear all the time:
How do I ask her out? or at least how can I get her opinion on this subject?
Please guys any tips on how can I spice it up with her a bit knowing that I don't want to make her uncomfortable, also she still lives far so if she would be my girlfriend I would only meet her like twice a month but I don't care about that now
P.S: in our traditions it's okay to marry cousins so please no talking about that subject
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