So at work,I clock in,get to work and this co-worker starts telling me that her and two other co-workers(one a gay guy & a women straight) had a conversation about me last night.
I was told the conversation was about one thinks I'm straight,one thinks I'm gay & one thinks I'm bi?!?! This was out of left field! Man I laughed soo much when she told me,I had no idea what to think. So apparentely the gay guy thinks I haven't come out of the closet yet. Now one employee who knows I'm straight said to the gay guy"You know what,now that I think about it you have a point. He doesn't have a girlfriend,he keeps his body in great shape,he always takes care of himself.I guess there is only one reason he wouldn't have a girlfriend." Man I should have kicked her in the shin when she told me that she egged it on. Now to top it off I guess I added "wood to the fire" by saying "What's shakin baby?" to him,I say that to everyone instead of "whats up" when I first see them. I never thought that a gay guy would think anything of that,but I learned my lesson now. I guess they talked for awhile about what they each thought...Boy do I love break room gossip.
I mean in one retrospect it's a compliment actually. All the gay people I know keep themselves in tip top shape,are smart and have common sense. Then there is the other side,I'M NOT GAY!
How can I derail this gay guy's thoughts?
I was told the conversation was about one thinks I'm straight,one thinks I'm gay & one thinks I'm bi?!?! This was out of left field! Man I laughed soo much when she told me,I had no idea what to think. So apparentely the gay guy thinks I haven't come out of the closet yet. Now one employee who knows I'm straight said to the gay guy"You know what,now that I think about it you have a point. He doesn't have a girlfriend,he keeps his body in great shape,he always takes care of himself.I guess there is only one reason he wouldn't have a girlfriend." Man I should have kicked her in the shin when she told me that she egged it on. Now to top it off I guess I added "wood to the fire" by saying "What's shakin baby?" to him,I say that to everyone instead of "whats up" when I first see them. I never thought that a gay guy would think anything of that,but I learned my lesson now. I guess they talked for awhile about what they each thought...Boy do I love break room gossip.
I mean in one retrospect it's a compliment actually. All the gay people I know keep themselves in tip top shape,are smart and have common sense. Then there is the other side,I'M NOT GAY!
How can I derail this gay guy's thoughts?