"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is my problem.

jebach123

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I am 17 years old. (now you thinking ****ing kid **** off but listen)
Before highschool i said i was not going to have a girl for a year or just some time for myself.

Now it's been 3 years and I had my last kiss when i was 14 omg,
im just so hype and working on myself i discovered this red pill not so long ago
and its driving me crazy

im literally chasing a girl that i am better than and its just i just want someone i need some pep talk to get my standards "back" high (the thing about this girl is that i just moved to another country and we are from the same country she speaks my first language)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude99

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I am 17 years old. (now you thinking ****ing kid **** off but listen)
Before highschool i said i was not going to have a girl for a year or just some time for myself.

Now it's been 3 years and I had my last kiss when i was 14 omg,
im just so hype and working on myself i discovered this red pill not so long ago
and its driving me crazy

im literally chasing a girl that i am better than and its just i just want someone i need some pep talk to get my standards "back" high (the thing about this girl is that i just moved to another country and we are from the same country she speaks my first language)
Read the DJ BIBLE. Then read it again. Don't get wrapped up in chasing one girl. Do not chase this girl in fact. She must chase you.

Spin plates. Have options. Date date date. Best advise i can give you is this:

1. You're only 17. Rush for nothing. Tske your time.

2. No chick is worth your sanity. Do not commit to any girl under 25. You will wind up getting used and dumped. Date. Pump and date and pump some more. Do not get attached

3. Treat all girls the same. Read that again. The 10' get the same treatment as the 6 or 7
Do not over value a girl or they will view you as weak.

4. Show them you are the prize and they will chase you. Chase them and they will know they are the prize and use you.

5. Always have options. Always show a girl you will walk and not give them a second thought if they do not follow your lead.

6. Have fun.
 

SgtSplacker

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Be patient champ, you have lots of time to find a winner. The last thing you want to do is settle for a girl just so you can bang her.

Now is the time to practice talking to girls in a sexual way but not coming across as weird or creepy. Just talk to them without expecting any particular outcome. Be the cool guy looking for new friends.

For immediate sexual relief hang out in more mature places, there's a ton of 40 year old cougars just waiting for a guy like you to bone them.

Good luck
 

C00lAF

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Im 19,a d let me tell you something fam,any girl below 25 would be FLAKY AF do dont expect "real stuff" out of anyone,what i do now is experiments to see what really works for me and what not,no high expectation and im not really focusing on any outcome but improving my game."not having a girl for a year/time of my own" kinda talk is BS,beacuse i belive its an excuse and you are just being lazy to improve,out of curiousity what did you achive in this year without women? I guess you just forgot how to deal with them and thats why you are frustrated.
Regarding your issue,you are chasing her out of desperation/neediness cause you dont have other options,and if girls can sense anything at all,it would be this,lets say you have emma watsons number,and angelinas,and mia khalifa and natali dormers number,would you chase this girl?i fvcking bet my organs that you wouldnt even look at her direction mate.i will learn 2 other launguages if i have to,fvck needing a particular women for a reason that i can workon.
Final note:work on your inner game cause it will be easier to apply dj bible,uill do it naturaly.
 
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