"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This is intresting, self-esteem.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
GaryUranga
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nah.. seriously
If she doesn't show me any signs of sexual intrest i am going out as fast as i came in. I seriously don't care if she is a attention wh0re, as long i get what i want and i am in control ill give her the attention she needs.
GaryUranga
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I am going to make her feel special, protect. Btw, whats "complimening"GaryUranga said:I dont think making her feel good like that by complimening her will help you, same rules apply to everyone.
or do you mean "complimenting"? if thats you meaning i never said i would compliment her, i said i will make her feel special and protected.
Yup, more like she's taking advantage of his gullibility by using false modesty to attention-wh0re. She won't stop until this AFC totally humiliates himself by serenading her with "you are beautiful, no matter what they say..." :crackup:Potbelly said:that's exactly what she WANTS you to do man. ATTENTION WH0RE!!!
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