"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is Insanity....tear my soul out and take it you harlot.

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We all talk a tough game, but when someone of value walks into your life everything changes.

We read the DJ bible, we try to internalize a prize mentality but in Our reality it's much deeper and darker than that.

Wounds that are so deep it's hard to overcome than just thinking something and then magically everything is supposed to change for you?

Deep down inside you are a human being with FEELINGS....You want a woman to make you feel loved, you want a woman to be your other half...WE ALL want that hence why we are here.

When you meet someone whom you THINK is different than all the TRASH out there, and then you are disappointed you can't help but to feel empty.

You can follow Nismo's laws, you can walk like you are cawk of the walk in the shadows you shed your tears....

Why is dating this way why is finding someone to fall in love with a Wasteful and Useless journey of life....

This is Insanity......this is worthless...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Care to explain?
 

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Awesome post none the less.
 

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take it easy
 

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women haze said:
When you meet someone whom you THINK is different than all the TRASH out there, and then you are disappointed you can't help but to feel empty.


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Well your problem is simple. Too eager to label a girl "of value"

Assume there is no such thing (its all shades of gray, not good/bad trash/treasure value/worthless) and play the game within that framework. Problem solved.

Sounds like deep down you don't want to let go of the AFC mindset. It happens all the time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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