This is how you go from stranger-sex.

[Jack Wealthy]

After realizing it is HER who should be nervous around YOU. Why? Because you're a man and you can handle more sexual tension than her.

How do you create sexual tension?

You don't. Nature gave you guys opposing hormone systems, it did ALL the work for you. All you have to do is not **** up.

You do this by:
-Talking mostly in statements (about 80% of the time)
-Entering her personal space.
-ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS holding eye-contact until she breaks it. Look around sometimes, but not much.
-Always being the last to break contact
-Always initiating contact ASAP (within seconds)

She will slow you down. Good. That's called "flirting." Flirting is YOU pushing it forward and her making you slow down.

"But Jack, I'm the prize! Girls chase ME!"

Cool dude. You're not the prize. If you are willing to waste time waiting for girls to chase you, your time is worth far less than it should be. Save yourself the effort, you could be improving other aspects of your life with that time. Go read a frickin book.

Being the prize is about putting yourself out there. Namely, your feelings (what girls operate on) and your intent (where you intend for this to end up.) That is all you need to know. Then you are the prize.

Talk in statements, she will ask questions- validate you. She will respond with personal statements- ie, she chases rapport. That means you can give HER rapport ANY TIME YOU WANT.

What is game? Game is escalating towards sex. Simple.

 

[Watawata]

Great post.

 

[nroug7]

After realizing it is HER who should be nervous around YOU. Why? Because you're a man and you can handle more sexual tension than her.

How do you create sexual tension?

You don't. Nature gave you guys opposing hormone systems, it did ALL the work for you. All you have to do is not **** up.

You do this by:
-Talking mostly in statements (about 80% of the time)
-Entering her personal space.
-ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS holding eye-contact until she breaks it. Look around sometimes, but not much.
-Always being the last to break contact
-Always initiating contact ASAP (within seconds)

She will slow you down. Good. That's called "flirting." Flirting is YOU pushing it forward and her making you slow down.

"But Jack, I'm the prize! Girls chase ME!"

Cool dude. You're not the prize. If you are willing to waste time waiting for girls to chase you, your time is worth far less than it should be. Save yourself the effort, you could be improving other aspects of your life with that time. Go read a frickin book.

Being the prize is about putting yourself out there. Namely, your feelings (what girls operate on) and your intent (where you intend for this to end up.) That is all you need to know. Then you are the prize.

Talk in statements, she will ask questions- validate you. She will respond with personal statements- ie, she chases rapport. That means you can give HER rapport ANY TIME YOU WANT.

What is game? Game is escalating towards sex. Simple.

Hit the nail on the head. I've realized this with a girl I've recently been playing around with
Also, sometimes she will take on a few of your qualities when building rapport, this is a very positive sign.