"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is how it's done...The easy way to get a number!

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I picked up my son from military school this morning. He has a weekend pass. He told me about a community project he worked on passing on bags door to door for a food collection. He is about 6 ' tall and very muscular. He went up to a door and there was a girl in the yard. She walked up to him started a conversation and told him he had pretty eyes. She then gave him her number without him asking. This happens all of the time. This happened to me too when I was his age. The moral of the story is be good looking, buff and have pretty eyes. It will make picking up girls easier. I am trying to teach him game but he won't have any of it because he doesn't have to work for girls. One day he will learn.......
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting number doesn't mean sh*t though. Even though this chick has high interest. I have to ask, why didn't your take her on an instadate?
 

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Getting number doesn't mean sh*t though. Even though this chick has high interest. I have to ask, why didn't your take her on an instadate?
Getting a number isn't getting a lay. But if you're good looking and in good physical shape women will be more receptive to you which gives you more opportunities.
 

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I picked up my son from military school this morning. He has a weekend pass. He told me about a community project he worked on passing on bags door to door for a food collection. He is about 6 ' tall and very muscular. He went up to a door and there was a girl in the yard. She walked up to him started a conversation and told him he had pretty eyes. She then gave him her number without him asking. This happens all of the time. This happened to me too when I was his age. The moral of the story is be good looking, buff and have pretty eyes. It will make picking up girls easier. I am trying to teach him game but he won't have any of it because he doesn't have to work for girls. One day he will learn.......
This happened to me. If you're very good looking you don't have to learn much game. That changes as you get older though.
 

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I picked up my son from military school this morning. He has a weekend pass. He told me about a community project he worked on passing on bags door to door for a food collection. He is about 6 ' tall and very muscular. He went up to a door and there was a girl in the yard. She walked up to him started a conversation and told him he had pretty eyes. She then gave him her number without him asking. This happens all of the time. This happened to me too when I was his age. The moral of the story is be good looking, buff and have pretty eyes. It will make picking up girls easier. I am trying to teach him game but he won't have any of it because he doesn't have to work for girls. One day he will learn.......
"The moral of the story is be good looking, buff and have pretty eyes."

Really? so what about the guys that don't fit into that small category?

Hogwash Dustmuffin

When I was growing up my best mate was Charlie. Not the coke. I was way times better than Charlie. Don't get me wrong Charlie was decent looking. But how come everybody knew Charlie? How come Charlie constantly got girls....sometimes in front of my face when I (more handsome) was let standing ther clueless....because he walked on the water with confidence.

Yes ok he boxed a little....but the kid had exuberant confidence. He was just daring and brave. I wondered were did he learn it.. The boy was a natural. Then I found out. We started hanging with his older brothers and their friends. Let me tell you...they were naturals.....average looking guys (ok one or two were handsone") but one thing they had was daring.....

I needed to ask for permission for the things these guys were doing. why weren't they checking in with anyone else? they were relentless.....

they smoked, drank, done drugs, didn't care.....

each one of them....had exuberent confidence. that's within the grasp of us all
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Getting number doesn't mean sh*t though. Even though this chick has high interest. I have to ask, why didn't your take her on an instadate?
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"The moral of the story is be good looking, buff and have pretty eyes."

Really? so what about the guys that don't fit into that small category?

Hogwash Dustmuffin

When I was growing up my best mate was Charlie. Not the coke. I was way times better than Charlie. Don't get me wrong Charlie was decent looking. But how come everybody knew Charlie? How come Charlie constantly got girls....sometimes in front of my face when I (more handsome) was let standing ther clueless....because he walked on the water with confidence.

Yes ok he boxed a little....but the kid had exuberant confidence. He was just daring and brave. I wondered were did he learn it.. The boy was a natural. Then I found out. We started hanging with his older brothers and their friends. Let me tell you...they were naturals.....average looking guys (ok one or two were handsone") but one thing they had was daring.....

I needed to ask for permission for the things these guys were doing. why weren't they checking in with anyone else? they were relentless.....

they smoked, drank, done drugs, didn't care.....

each one of them....had exuberent confidence. that's within the grasp of us all
You guys need to settle down. I was just bragging on my boy! It seemed humorous to me that that he makes no effort and women come to him! Sometimes this place is a little to serious.
 

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Good on your boy. Anyway it's easy to misinterpret stuff on the internet ;)
 

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I understand the point of your thread, and good for your son. But he needs to watch out.

Girls, these days especially, will give out their number to just about anyone. It's not a big deal like it was years ago.

The way she was very foward with him, a stranger, isn't a very good sign. She likely does the same thing with just about any guy. I've had girls use the same "You have really pretty eyes," line followed by giving out their number. They turned out to be trouble too. The type who thinks a guy is going to come in and fix everything. They're desperately seeking a boyfriend, and will be overly foward with any guy they see as a potential BF. You get very involved with those types you'll quickly learn why they had recently became single.
 
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