"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PinkFloyd

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So I call up this girl, the first time and she only has a home number. She picks up and I say "Hi". She knew it was me even though I'd never called her before. She seemed really excited, but she had to go to church for some Easter thing.

This is good right?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonSonnySagliani

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Positive attitude works better than any other thing. Combining that with a year and a half reaserch on girl's minds, i became the one i am. Before i enforced positive attitude and started learning i had only 2 girls.
 

shydude

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She was exited? Thats good already. She is going to church? She believes in god, which is good!
 
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