Let's say that a girl flakes on you and you move on, is it a good idea to add her on facebook just for the hell of it? I realize that's a super AFC move but I mean if the whole thing has gone belly up anyway, why not? It's not like she can flake again, and if nothing else she might see how well you're doing based on what you put on facebook. I had a discussion with a friend of mine about this for about an hour today so I'm just curious what you guys think?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is going to seem like an AFC move but...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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If you are adding after you move on, then is that really moving on?
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The "awe what the he11" and the "well its worth a shot" attitudes are absolutely pathetic. Its a way guys rationalize to themselves beta behavior in lusting hope that the girl will "reconsider them".
Let's say that a girl flakes on you and you move on, is it a good idea to add her on facebook
if nothing else she might see how well you're doing based on what you put on facebook.
She flaked on you bro. What the fuk makes you think shes gonna give two sh1ts about your "facebook life". Title of this post says it all...guys need to quit the desperate "last ditch effort" attitudes.
Let's say that a girl flakes on you and you move on, is it a good idea to add her on facebook
if nothing else she might see how well you're doing based on what you put on facebook.
She flaked on you bro. What the fuk makes you think shes gonna give two sh1ts about your "facebook life". Title of this post says it all...guys need to quit the desperate "last ditch effort" attitudes.
Ok a couple of things. First off this didn't actually happen, we were just sitting there having a lunch break during work and we just kinda led into this conversation. His point was more of the "fuk her, if she's friend's with me on facebook she can see I'm doing well without her and how big of an idiot she is etc etc." He didn't mean it in the "hasn't moved on" sense but more in the "narcissist, she's dumb and how freakin great I am" sense. Again this didn't actually happen to me and as far as I know it didn't happen to my buddy either but I'll admit it is kind of odd he had such strong feelings on it.
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Who the heck cares? Add if you want. If you really moved on, you wouldn't really care not to come off as an afc toward her. It is afc to think whether you're acting like an afc or not.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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This. I would also make sure you have a couple girls in your rotation when and if you add her. If you are flying solo and she becomes a facebook friend, you will be tempted to contact her and go full-blown AFC.time2change said:
You need to treat this girl like a complete afterthought. Nothing more than the avatar on your screen.
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You have nothing to lose by adding her. Having hot female friends on Facebook doesn't really have a down side.
But I usually don't add girls I'm still gaming. At least not until I f*ck them. However, if I've decided not to pursue them at all.. I'll add them just to have more pics to look at. :yes:
Another plus to adding girls is creating a bridge between you and her friends.
But I usually don't add girls I'm still gaming. At least not until I f*ck them. However, if I've decided not to pursue them at all.. I'll add them just to have more pics to look at. :yes:
Another plus to adding girls is creating a bridge between you and her friends.