"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this is going to be an interesting saturday :)

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Okay well my visiting this site has helped me but this day completley defines what I've learned from all of you. BTW as in my last thread I've "grabbed my balls" (kinda) and are going on a double date tonight.

ANYWAYS heres how my night is:

At 5:00 my friend and I are goign out to sushi with these 2 girls. Then at 6;30 we are going over to another girls house to get with these 2 chicks gunna chill there for a lil then at night another 2 set that wants my friend adn i want to hang out so were gunna tap taht too...now this timing is giogn to be very hard to do but i'm up for a challenge...anyways im bored as hell so i thought id post this lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3 girls in 12 hours.
nice.
i've never done that. lol.
 

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Let us know what happens.

Bet you $100 that none of that happens, the girls bail and they drive around before going to sleep.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
Let us know what happens.

Bet you $100 that none of that happens, the girls bail and they drive around before going to sleep.
hahahah ouch.
its happened to the bets of us though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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okay well heres how it went.

at about 2 pm i find out that theres some HUGE party in my wingmans development, so both of us are like ok well just brign these girls back to your houes when we get trashed as see where it goes...

anyways...the girls that were going to dinner date with us said that they had to do something and theyd hang with us later...

then we went to that girls house...got a lil poonani and they said theyd se us at the party...

then we got the other 2 set and brought them to the party

so were at this party with ALL OF THE GIRLS we've been pimping. then cops come so my dumbass friend goes EVERYONE to my house. So theres 150 people+ in his basement and i'm going back and forth with all 3 girls. i end up isolating 2 (seperately) and get with 2 of the 3...not bad especaillyc ause the 3rd asked me to chill today already :)
 

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haha well obviusly it flooded into his 2nd floor too but the majority were in his basement
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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