"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is frustrating! - RANT

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{EDIT to delete a very long rant}

Never mind.

Simply lock or delete this thread. It was about the same guys and their Oneitis or feeling attraction for woment that don't reciprocate. But I guess this is what this place is all about...help those people.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well put. Just as an aside, I'm well aware of the of rash of "one-hit-wonder" posts on the Mature forum lately by members with a post count of under 5 who join the same month, but are posting on generalities or have these 'situations' based on some very brief, vague details, all of which are common themes we go into here.

If I see posts like this I'm not likely to respond, unless it's a long time lurker.
 
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