"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is frustrating! - RANT

Latinoman

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{EDIT to delete a very long rant}

Never mind.

Simply lock or delete this thread. It was about the same guys and their Oneitis or feeling attraction for woment that don't reciprocate. But I guess this is what this place is all about...help those people.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well put. Just as an aside, I'm well aware of the of rash of "one-hit-wonder" posts on the Mature forum lately by members with a post count of under 5 who join the same month, but are posting on generalities or have these 'situations' based on some very brief, vague details, all of which are common themes we go into here.

If I see posts like this I'm not likely to respond, unless it's a long time lurker.
 
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