This is fckin Pissin ME OFF!!

[gotballz]

How do you handle fckin amogs, insults, teases n shyt. Especially if uve had a bad imprresion on evryone in school. Because of somthin ur brother did. Some info bout me, people might say shyt to me but no one dares to start a fight with me.

NEways wtf do u do with these mofos, and how do u handle insults like an alpha male.

I Need adive guys n dont giv me BS on self-esteem n all that crap. We hve alpha males on this forum which can tell me wat to do.

Also if i wannae chop school girls, i need to change that impression of me, im also naturally a funny guy.

Pce,

 

[kingy]

if someone teases you then laugh at it, diffuse the situation and then make that person socially awkward. dont be reactive

e.g.

"hahah awesome man"

few mins later

"dude you look tired, are you feeling okay?"

if every time someone attacks you they end up feeling bad they stop doing it pretty soon.

Also you want to get more friends, be more socially active in times of attacks, will put more social pressure on the attacker.

p.s. if you inner game / self esteem is solid the attacks probably wouldn't happen, definitly worth developing

 

[sageproduct]

Interesting, I've never actually heard this viewpoint before. I always read that you're supposed to somehow diffuse it with humor? But I guess this way would work well too, and I'd actually prefer this way that kingy mentioned since it doesn't rely on "coming up with something good".

 

[jeffthechef]

Some guys that i think you should observe for alpha male behavior..

Watch Ocean's 11, if you haven't seen it already...I love that movie.
danny ocean-clooney
rusty ryan- pitt

those are the two main guys...perhaps benedict, the casino owner too if he laughed a little more...alpha's dont need to be that serious though his job might require it

anyways..watch the movie..see how they dress, walk, talk, etc. Especially clooney when he talks to julia roberts...i noticed he does this slight smile that you might notice if you really pay attention..and the tone of their voice, how they interact..all of that

50 cent too...but i'd recommend you only develop soime of that mentality..just a balance of the two should help...

you want to be suave, laidback, sexy, funny, etc...but you also need an aggressive, leader.. type of mentality

as for dealing with those guys, dont even bother noticing it..if you talked **** to an alpha, he wouldn't even move, look, listen..he'd just go about his business

but if these guys start going after more relevant things such as family, physical ****...then you turn on the 50 cent side and confront them with aggression..


BUT REMEMBER THIS...all this **** is pretty small...dont let it bother you..jus thandle it

 

[gotballz]

what if someone calls u a terrorist or makes a racial comment because ur middle eastern? what do u say to that? (my fist tends to want to speak first)

 

[kingy]

stop taking yourself so seriously, jeez joke around.

"haha yeah im the biggest badest terrorist in the west"

"you sound angry dude, i dont believe in war and just give love to everybody, come here and ill give you a cuddle"

"sorry dude im not gay"

"im only a terroist on thursdays ;-)"

anyone of those sound bites are cool, lighten up

 

[eaglez1177]

The most alpha way to deal with insults is to not TAKE them and RESPOND to them, but to rather GO ALONG with them.

Ex: "Dude your such a fvckin faggot/your so gay/you love d*ck"
-response: "Yep, yep, yea man I just love guys what can I say?/Yea dude I just love being a homo/Yep, yep, i've loved the d*ck my entire life"

Say it like your just agreeing with everything that they say just for the fun of it, and then give a little bit of a grin (not the good kind of grin, the grin that says "you have no effect on me, I pity your pathetic insults, and im a bigger man than you". You have to respond like it doesnt affect you at all, and since it doesnt affect you at all, you just agree with them and go along with their insults so they can just shutup already, and help them realize that what they say doesnt hurt you.

If you pull it off correctly, the kid saying the insult should very easily get the hint that your just fvcking around with him and playing around with what he says, a clear sign that what hes saying doesnt hurt you and rather just gives you amusement.

 

[getready]

The most alpha way to deal with insults is to not TAKE them and RESPOND to them, but to rather GO ALONG with them.

Watch out though ive seen this backfire. Make sure you say this with confidence or they might end up teasing you more.

 

[eaglez1177]

Ehh honestly man if you say it the way I described it'll work every single time. You just have to be sure that the kid who is teasing you gets the point (i already explained what the point is supposed to be in my previous post)

 

[keepitirie]

noooooooooo!!! do not say you are a terriorist! that is dumb! you are only bringing yourself into their realities! DONT EVER say "ya, im the most badass terrorist in the west.." DUMB AS FVCK... even though you may be showing that its not affecting you, its better to just tell them off. if you do allow this, put yourself in a position of authority.

example.
*******: blah blah blah.. you're a middle eastern terrorist.
YOU: yea, im here to terrorize all the *******s like you. "if you take it this way, say it in a joking way... dont they'll know not to mess around with this idea."

if some ******* who you dont know says this to you, just be like, "who the **** are you?"
stare at them intently. ignore them. talk to someone else. be cool with other people. They will come back to you for forgiveness... well not like im sorry and ****, but they will want to be your friend. it really makes them look stupid when they try to make fun of you and you just call them out, expecially if you have someone to back you up. people dont mess with people when you dont allow them to mess with you.

what eaglez1177 is true. to do what he says, you have to be consistent with comebacks at all times... this gets really tiring. If you dont show that you are always confident in all areas of your life, by really being confident, not faking it, people will still bag on you. if they stop making fun of you for one thing because its getting old, they are going to make fun of you for other things.

this is the best way to get people to stop though.

a-hole: *makes fun of you*
You: dude ur so negative man. damn negative nancy.
or
You: whats up with all the negativity Nancy?

now you can make fun of him for being a negative nancy. turn around are the best. and when people make fun of you, they're always being negative nancys. call them ouf for it. No one wants to be known for being the negative person. They always just bring groups down.

 

[LesaneCrooks]

I love how no one is mentioning violence. An "alpha male" essentially means someone who isn't a p_ssy, be it with women or with their competition, who in this case is some a-hole giving you ****. I recommend using as much violence as necessary to maintain your masculinity. Anybody who hates on this advice is probably too much of a vag to ever fight for their own dignity, which is absolutely necessary at times regardless of what anyone would like to claim. If you can't grab your b_lls as a man and handle your business, then you shouldn't complain about somebody calling you out on being exactly what you clearly are. Next time someone gives you crap, and you dont like it, show them you dont like it by promptly punching them in the jaw. That, unlike all these fancy words and phrases, will actually keep people from messing with you. Its the law of the jungle, and there is no way around it. If you are struggling to avoid violence, perhaps you aren't meant to be an alpha male. It may be harsh, but you need to dig down deep and figure out what you are really mean't to be. Not trying to be an a-hole but it is what it is.