Ok quick overview this post has two parts one with cold approches, and the other with some discuission material that i find really important and i want to know what you all think.
Ok see I've attempted the cold approches i did it twice today, once at applebeas and i got the girls phone number, the way i did it was i noticed her looking over constantly so this is how it went.
"hey so how old are you?"
"i'm 21" (with a smile)
"hah, that's cool then you live around here?"
"yeah actually i just got a new place"
"cool, well hey would you be intrested in partying it up sometime? me and my friend here have a lot of other friends and we pretty much party it up on a weekend basis, well i mean at least we try.. who knows what will happen tomorrow"
(she laughs)
"sure! here let me give you my phone number"
END
Second was at the mall, this is a pretty high class mall with about a shyt load of hot girls.. staisticlly speaking anybody can come in here ask each girl and probably walk away with at least one number.
So i'm walking around upstairs with a friend and i spot this hot HB8 standing next to dillards, black hair, olive skin light eyes. I noticed her looking and then i saw her do a double take. (she looked back immediatly after her inital look)
i took this as a HUGE sign and i sacked up and just went over there.
"hey what's up, you waitin for somebody?"
"yeah actually they're in dillards"
"yeah, well you know i was just walking up here i saw you and i thought i would come over an introduce myself."
(smiles)
"my names chris, and u?"
"alexis, you shop here often?"
"nah actually its to expensive for me see i perferr that kmart bought stuff, i hear girls be loving the thrift store style"
(she cracks up)
"uh huh, it ALMOST looks like you shop at kmart with your abercrombie jeans and button down shirt."
"haha, i guess you got me, i really don't shop here often though, i was just kinda window shopping so i know what i'll tell people i would have got them for Xmas"
(she cracks up again)
"haha, you got jokes! you live close?"
"maybe, why? you wanna chill sometime?"
"maybe.."
"maybe huh? well why don't i give you my number and you can call me"
"haha hmm how about this i'll give you MY number and YOU can call ME"
"done deal"
Anyway.. I get her number and leave. Like i said i'm sarcastic guy so the C+F rolls off like its second nature, because it is.
NOW I called them both tonight, which is why i'm makeing this post.. See the first girl it was like pulling teeth to have a conversation. But the second one.. conversation flowed smooth it was liek she was one of the guys.
Now here's the questions, FIRST how do you think i did? and second does anybody else think that CONVERSATION the ability to talk to each other is the single most IMPORTANT thing to establish.
Like if you can't talk to a girl on the phone for at least 30 minutes easy.. then it probably won't work out.
Ok see I've attempted the cold approches i did it twice today, once at applebeas and i got the girls phone number, the way i did it was i noticed her looking over constantly so this is how it went.
"hey so how old are you?"
"i'm 21" (with a smile)
"hah, that's cool then you live around here?"
"yeah actually i just got a new place"
"cool, well hey would you be intrested in partying it up sometime? me and my friend here have a lot of other friends and we pretty much party it up on a weekend basis, well i mean at least we try.. who knows what will happen tomorrow"
(she laughs)
"sure! here let me give you my phone number"
END
Second was at the mall, this is a pretty high class mall with about a shyt load of hot girls.. staisticlly speaking anybody can come in here ask each girl and probably walk away with at least one number.
So i'm walking around upstairs with a friend and i spot this hot HB8 standing next to dillards, black hair, olive skin light eyes. I noticed her looking and then i saw her do a double take. (she looked back immediatly after her inital look)
i took this as a HUGE sign and i sacked up and just went over there.
"hey what's up, you waitin for somebody?"
"yeah actually they're in dillards"
"yeah, well you know i was just walking up here i saw you and i thought i would come over an introduce myself."
(smiles)
"my names chris, and u?"
"alexis, you shop here often?"
"nah actually its to expensive for me see i perferr that kmart bought stuff, i hear girls be loving the thrift store style"
(she cracks up)
"uh huh, it ALMOST looks like you shop at kmart with your abercrombie jeans and button down shirt."
"haha, i guess you got me, i really don't shop here often though, i was just kinda window shopping so i know what i'll tell people i would have got them for Xmas"
(she cracks up again)
"haha, you got jokes! you live close?"
"maybe, why? you wanna chill sometime?"
"maybe.."
"maybe huh? well why don't i give you my number and you can call me"
"haha hmm how about this i'll give you MY number and YOU can call ME"
"done deal"
Anyway.. I get her number and leave. Like i said i'm sarcastic guy so the C+F rolls off like its second nature, because it is.
NOW I called them both tonight, which is why i'm makeing this post.. See the first girl it was like pulling teeth to have a conversation. But the second one.. conversation flowed smooth it was liek she was one of the guys.
Now here's the questions, FIRST how do you think i did? and second does anybody else think that CONVERSATION the ability to talk to each other is the single most IMPORTANT thing to establish.
Like if you can't talk to a girl on the phone for at least 30 minutes easy.. then it probably won't work out.