"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is certainly not true...

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I have seen this in this site:

''In fact, nearly 10% of males (alpha males) sleep with 90% of viable females. ''

http://www.attractology.com/innergame/what_is_an_alpha_male.php

Now, where does these guys get those things ?

I am honestly very tired of those so called gurus or what talking about evolution, cientific stuff, when they are clearly not qualified to make claims like that.

Honestly, things like that just makes me think that all the rest they wrote is BS.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Most gurus are idiots. Their knowledge of science is more humerous than informative. They think if they read a few books from degree by mail PHDs from borders and then fantasize how that plays out in the real world, one day they will become super PUAS.

If you want to have sex with lots of women it is incredibly simple that starts right this second, not after years of study:

1) Get women alone. The methodology for this varies as comfort levels are different for everyone. But the bottom line is at some point you must get them alone in your car, in nature, at her place, at your place. Somewhere and do it fast! I always have sex within the first two meetings. If it takes three meetings, you've already wasted too much time unless you're lookign for a wife.

2) Don't ever try to figure out if its OK to go for it or not. I always go for it even if I think its a no go, because there have been too many nogos that were gos. Back to (1), if you go for it everytime you'll know within 2 meetings if it's on or off. Time saving strategy and actually makes sex more likely to occur rather than less anyway

3) I always have a few going at once, that way I don't spend too much time microanalyzing details or fretting over "why didn't she answer my call blah blah blah". You are not a mind reader, so don't bother fooling yourself into thinking that you are. I usually have 2-3 going at once so that I don't get overwhelmed and start tripping on people for being demanding. Unfortunately when a lot of women want sex, they expect sex, and they get defensive if I keep putting them off. I think it's good to have some you just sort of talk to occasionally and 2-3 active sex partners.

4) Don't take direspect but don't act with a heavy hand either. I learned this lesson the other day, this lady started to sound rigid but I had faith in humanity so I didn't give her ****. She's ended up being very accomodating. I am going to impregnate her since her hubby is sterile. She actually was worried I would ONS her which is why she sounded rigid. That's why I say don't act with a heavy hand and don't be a mind reader, cuz you don't know even if you think you do (like what happened to me in this example). At the same time, if someone is being overtly disrepectful as a pattern of behavior, I don't tolerate that kind of crap nor do I suggest you should
 

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Now, this is practical advice...

What is ONS ?
 

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I don't know if that is the correct figure, but it is certainly true. A small minority of attractive men sleep with the majority of women.

Btw good to see you do not blindly accept whatever your favourite pick up "guru" tells you. I wouldn't trust them to give me accurate scientific information.
 

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everywomanshero said:
Most gurus are idiots. Their knowledge of science is more humerous than informative. They think if they read a few books from degree by mail PHDs from borders and then fantasize how that plays out in the real world, one day they will become super PUAS.

If you want to have sex with lots of women it is incredibly simple that starts right this second, not after years of study:

1) Get women alone. The methodology for this varies as comfort levels are different for everyone. But the bottom line is at some point you must get them alone in your car, in nature, at her place, at your place. Somewhere and do it fast! I always have sex within the first two meetings. If it takes three meetings, you've already wasted too much time unless you're lookign for a wife.

2) Don't ever try to figure out if its OK to go for it or not. I always go for it even if I think its a no go, because there have been too many nogos that were gos. Back to (1), if you go for it everytime you'll know within 2 meetings if it's on or off. Time saving strategy and actually makes sex more likely to occur rather than less anyway

3) I always have a few going at once, that way I don't spend too much time microanalyzing details or fretting over "why didn't she answer my call blah blah blah". You are not a mind reader, so don't bother fooling yourself into thinking that you are. I usually have 2-3 going at once so that I don't get overwhelmed and start tripping on people for being demanding. Unfortunately when a lot of women want sex, they expect sex, and they get defensive if I keep putting them off. I think it's good to have some you just sort of talk to occasionally and 2-3 active sex partners.

4) Don't take direspect but don't act with a heavy hand either. I learned this lesson the other day, this lady started to sound rigid but I had faith in humanity so I didn't give her ****. She's ended up being very accomodating. I am going to impregnate her since her hubby is sterile. She actually was worried I would ONS her which is why she sounded rigid. That's why I say don't act with a heavy hand and don't be a mind reader, cuz you don't know even if you think you do (like what happened to me in this example). At the same time, if someone is being overtly disrepectful as a pattern of behavior, I don't tolerate that kind of crap nor do I suggest you should
bump!

mean post.. worth a separate thread
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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What happened to the 80/20 rule?

I know they say 20% of people own 80% of the world's wealth OR 80% of a company's sales come from 20% of clients.

BUT, I've never heard of the 90/10 rule.
 

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don't know if that is the correct figure, but it is certainly true. A small minority of attractive men sleep with the majority of women.
To say something is certainly true you need to show numbers and how you got them. This way it seems that this guy is taking these numbers out from his ... well, you know.
it's hard even to understand what those numbers means.
 
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