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I'm supposed to be banned for another month but I figure this thread will cut through that nonsense

In the last month or so, I started seeing one of my clients. I sold a car to this cute Moldovan girl and she asked me out on a date. I went out with her once and I'm going out with her again Saturday. She is very very interested in me - texts me everyday. I don't think she is really my type though - she is in school to be a doctor, a job that is going to require huge working hours, lots of debt and lots of stress. I want to be with a girl with an easy job with easy hours where she can focus on us and our future kids. I make all the money needed to support 3 households, I don't care about her making money. She is 20 (I'm 30). She is also slightly too chubby for my taste - she has absolutely fantastic genetics (huge boobs, very curvy) and 8 months in the gym would give her the nicest body you'll ever see but I am worried about her going opposite direction and getting bigger as time goes on. She sent me a picture of her last summer where she was slightly slimmer and she was beautiful.

I met this very cute Persian girl that I've been talking to but I have to generate all conversation with her, she barely if ever asks questions about me (even though we seemingly had a great interaction for a good 25-30 minutes). She's 29, beautiful, great body, comes from a good family, smart but her lack of interest in me is very very disappointing. She's ignored me a couple times but when I started talking to her again a week later, she was responding to me right away. She broke up with her boyfriend like a month ago and is in middle of moving so maybe she's in the middle of a lot of sh*t? I dunno

Now situation 3 - my sister back home in Armenia gave me number of a girl back there who is exactly my type. I've been talking to her for about a week or two. She is gorgeous, super sweet, smart, comes from great family, loves kids, wants to have kids, loves to cook, everything down the line of what I want (has no tattoos, doesn't believe in feminism, doesn't have kids, beautiful dark hair, doesn't smoke and barely ever drinks, ridiculous aging genetics as her 55 year old mom is still beautiful, everything I want).

Am I crazy to try to marry a girl from back home? Armenian girls are very loyal to men in our ethnicity and I'm both obviously very successful and VERY good looking for our ethnicity standards. For whiteboy american standards, I'm probably like a 6-7. For Armenian standards, I'm probably a 9. I've never seen another Armenian men better looking than me - most Armenian guys look very ethnic while me and my dad both look very European in the face. Now said Armenian girls texts me everyday and all day when we are both awake (between 9 am to 3 pm). She asks me a million questions everyday, she sends me pictures of her. She seems very interested but when she has told me that she loves living in Armenia (she admits the huge downside that the lack of jobs/economy is very disheartening). I don't know, what are the odds of her wanting to leave everything behind and come to America? It would make my whole extended family very VERY happy for me to marry a beautiful Armenian girl

It cracks me up - like 1% of American girls fit my standards, about 40% of Armenian girls fit my standards. Can I find what I want in the US? A good looking ethnic woman with a hot body who doesn't have kids, doesn't have tattoos, is very classy and feminine, loves kids, is a great housewife/mom (can also work, that's fine), 22-30, super loyal and all about family values?

I attached a picture of the one back home. Exactly who I envisioned myself marrying. Even her voice is the most beautiful feminine voice you've ever heard.

Or do I ignore these 3 and try to create new prospects? There are a lot of ethnic super hotties at my gym, I just don't know what to say to get that process started and I really have no confidence in trying to create something out of nothing. My confidence right now if I have any sort of a reasonable opportunity is very very high (If I was to meet a girl through friends or something, I would be supremely confident with her. I was supremely confident on my date with the moldovan girl) but trying to create something out of nothing with a random girl at a gym or a bar to me is still massively daunting and I still feel like it's impossible. I still feel like those girls would never be interested in anybody approaching them and certainly not me approaching them.
 

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