"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is a Test...What do I do?

DJoftheTheater

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Okay, there's this girl, we met a little while back and there's really been some chemistry.

The thing is, there have been several times when we were around other people and she'll say something about how she needs a guy to date, lets just say this, I'm interested, but how do I respond to this test?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tekniq

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its a **** test
grab your balls and try and form a cohesive thought

this is a common sense situation, if u cant solve it yourself you dont deserve to be with girls
 

Teh_Wolf

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Tekniq said:
if u cant solve it yourself you dont deserve to be with girls
funny, I thought this site was based on helping people who couldnt figure it out.
 

SmellyOrc

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Teh_Wolf said:
funny, I thought this site was based on helping people who couldnt figure it out.
It's to help people who can't figure it out, so that later, they can figure it out on their own, without people telling them what to do and how. ;)

@OP You could say something along the line of: 'Well, since you talk about it so much, and still haven't found a date, I'll go with ya.' :crackup:
 

Smack

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Teh_Wolf said:
funny, I thought this site was based on helping people who couldnt figure it out.
Too often, though, people ask the silliest and most pedantic questions that anyone who has read the Don Juan Bible could easily answer. Besides, in the field is where you learn pretty much everything. You've got to try and try and try until you succeed. You can't run along to SoSuave every time you need a question answered. Trust your gut - every man has it in him to successfully spread his genes and his gut instinct is what helped ancient man do this (no SoSuave for him in his days). Your gut instinct is still reliable; even extremely feminised men possess this instinct.

Now, OP, ask her out. ASK HER OUT! (In private of course.)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ARrocket

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Smack said:
Too often, though, people ask the silliest and most pedantic questions that anyone who has read the Don Juan Bible could easily answer. Besides, in the field is where you learn pretty much everything. You've got to try and try and try until you succeed. You can't run along to SoSuave every time you need a question answered. Trust your gut - every man has it in him to successfully spread his genes and his gut instinct is what helped ancient man do this (no SoSuave for him in his days). Your gut instinct is still reliable; even extremely feminised men possess this instinct.

Now, OP, ask her out. ASK HER OUT! (In private of course.)
You've been smacked :crackup:
 

Tekniq

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Teh_Wolf said:
funny, I thought this site was based on helping people who couldnt figure it out.
Yeah but too often this site attracts those who are incompetent to make their own decisions. This site can only do so much; read the bible and every question should be answered.
 
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