This is a problem

[The Master Disaster]

I got a girl intrested but she has b/f. I make her laugh from the start of the period to the end. She goes out of her way to talk/sit to me. I've done all the steps. She still has that b/f I don't know why. I'm considered the funniest person in school and many people have seen me do some stand-up. So she knows I have $$ in the future. I'm basically a full package funny, ****y, confident, smart, fun to talk to. Then I thought I'll do the "your not important me" or the "silent treatment" shrug her off. SHE WONT LET ME. She draws me in and I can't help but make her laugh 200 times. I can't help but make her smile. Its too dog on ez. I want to ask her out but she has a b/f. Could she just be toying with me? Or is she honestly attracted to me. I need some tips to get her to the next level the going out stage.

 

[Inquire]

stop seeing her, not worth the trouble of fightin the bf. me i would back off.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Originally posted by Inquire
stop seeing her, not worth the trouble of fightin the bf. me i would back off.

I can't she is in my class and sits a couple seats away but she always sits next to me. Its also computer Apps so we go to the computers everday and she sits right next to me.

 

[Inquire]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
I can't she is in my class and sits a couple seats away but she always sits next to me. Its also computer Apps so we go to the computers everday and she sits right next to me.

ouch, this is wut u can do, go up to the bf if u know him or not and say "dude i aint be tryin to get ur chick aite. so dont be hittin me up if anythang happens." i would make my intentions clear and just live life, and hopefully not go to the extent to kicking someones ass!

 

[The Master Disaster]

Originally posted by Inquire
ouch, this is wut u can do, go up to the bf if u know him or not and say "dude i aint be tryin to get ur chick aite. so dont be hittin me up if anythang happens." i would make my intentions clear and just live life, and hopefully not go to the extent to kicking someones ass!

I don't even think he goes to this school. I don't know him.

 

[Inquire]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
I don't even think he goes to this school. I don't know him.

well then i would be clear wit the chick tat i dont want any drama and we can be friends but i dont want to be tooo into thangs. just make ur intentions clear and not clouded and be truthful, it helps in the end.

 

[penkitten]

heres the thing,
bf or not, the attraction is apparently there for both of you.
now find out about the bf.
does he go to your school?

if so then you have a choice on if she is worth the whole fighting over a girl with another guy who will find out thing.

if not, talk to her a little. does she mention him alot like they are all in love ? are they having problems?
make her question why she likes someone she doesnt see very often compared to how you make her feel.
be slick about it. dont make her feel as if you are trying to break them up.
if you have her sitting beside you every single day and you have her rolling in the aisles with laughter, somehow i think you know her better than you are even aware.
say things like, i dated a girl that went to another school once and i never really knew what she did when i wasnt there. i trusted her and all however i never really felt like we had very much time together . we missed the small things like cutting up everyday and passing notes and eating lunch.
i think within the next two weeks, she will question why she does date him, what kind of future they will have, and why she keeps thinking about you so much and who she would rather be with.
be smooth while you watch the transititon unfold before your eyes.

 

[The Master Disaster]

I'm trying to do the seed method. Where you plant a seed and then let it grow.

 

[The Master Disaster]

any other thoughts?

 

[penkitten]

you mean what do you say that plants a seed to make her start liking you?

 

[The Master Disaster]

Well I'm just confused she has NEVER mentioned that she has a bf or has male friends. But I found out she did. Right b4 i asked her out. Today was pretty funny. She usually sits 1 computer away and the computer in the middle is empty. So today she said "I don't like the smell of black people." Which is B.S. So she sat next to me. I just can't do the 4th step which is let the seed grow while not talking to her. Do I just become friends with her till she dumps her bf or what should I do? She has basically shown every single thing of intrest in me. So what do I do?

 

[penkitten]

let me find a good link for you


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16213

 

[The Master Disaster]

So i just Ignore her?

 

[DJ4Real]

With the seed method in this situation the plant might grow too much if you catch my drift. But, there is some attaction there somewhere. I wouldn't quite "ignore" her. I'd be a little more scarce though.