This is a problem need assistance. Life changing since finding this n all

[thelonewolflegend]

I don't feel like I have ANY game to pick up or bang any woman I want.
I am not a bad looking guy and I got a car and house and make enough money to live and take a girl out once in a while. I want to have a few more women to bang every week that are attractive. I need help on how I can develop a game or a new mindframe or how to be this I have been reading DJ Bible but I don't seem to understand this fully how to be a man because all I know what to do is be an ******* to a woman when she is ignoring me or blowing me off and it doesn't work. So I need to know how she can emotionally invest in me or have interest level raised so her panties be wet and want to sleep with me I know I should be happy having a woman who loves me but the my past and childhood really messed me up in this prospective and growing up never having a woman and seeing women all the time and they never talking to me really screwed me up mentally as well as the 2 long term relationships I was in for 5 years that drained me financially and mentally the past year has been life revelation seeing the light reading this message board everyday reading so much about **** testing it makes me sooo FN angry because I am not a bad guy but these WOMEN ARE SO ****ING STUPID and I really do despise it but I know that is life. I have made a turn in 2014 with my life when I cut this ***** off who played games with me and friend zoned and tested me etc.... and that made me see the light and find these sites I also start pursing my life passions and dreams by signing up to be a referee for South Broadway Athetlic Club training to be in Pro Wrestling as well as co-leading a rap group with my friend the Crisp Money Legend$ and not giving an OUNCE of damn or anything to a woman unless they are freaking good to me like the one I am seeing she is taking me out to blues game tonight and getting me dinner something I have always wanted from women Royality Treatment which I deserve I gave SO MUCH DO THESE ****ING WOMAN WHAT DO I GET BACK ALL THESE YEARS OF EMOTINAL HEADACHE AND ****? NOTHING! So help me out I would appreciate it I would help you guys out any way if possible I want to be able to get a girls number and not have her ignore me and have her sleep with me that week and keep her and have her do for me and do this with several women on a weekly basis I have had a hell of a life these past 7 years or so and I want things go the way for me for once!
Sorry about all the venting but I have been so persistant in my life about women in the past year ever since I broke up with Lanika and met that **** face who was so sweet to me and was buying me drinks and flirting with me and then when I confronted her about liking me and asked her ber with me "said it was all unintentional" I told her ****ing bull**** slut ***** why would you do that if you liked me like that friendzoned me ****ing ****.
But yeah this site has really changed and all things but it was a HARD pill to swallow when I read all this stuff because I went off on her and her friend.

Help and thank you all I really need it bad I need to pick up some 7+'s and be able to sleep with them weekly keep them interested and get me dinner.

 

[Serenity]

Re-read your text keeping in mind how you're trying to be approved, learn from it and find another way to do it based on what you learn.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

What do you mean?

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

I can't tell if you are trolling or not...

Why do some guys blame everything on women? I don't get it.

" I'm fat its WOMENS FAULT"
" IM BROKE , ITS WOMANS FAULT"
" IM LAZY, ITS BECAUSE OF WOMEN"

blah blah blah... It's all on you man. You are free to make any decisions you want and if you chose to spend all your money on a woman then you will become broke. If you decide to base your happiness and life on a woman then you will become unhappy because your relationship will undoubtedly fall apart.

You claim to treat your woman like "royalty", have you ever thought this might be why your relationships fail? Sounds like all you do is focus on women. Focus on yourself and as you build your success woman will come easier and notice you more.

 

[Maximus Rex]

You Don't Listen Bruh

I don't feel like I have ANY game to pick up or bang any woman I want.

So I need to know how she can emotionally invest in me or have interest level raised so her panties be wet and want to sleep with me.

What is exactly wrong with your game?

Why do want to bang any woman that you want? How will this benefit you and improve your quality of life?

I am not a bad looking guy, I have a car and house. I also have the requisite income to take a girl out once in a while.

According to skinnyguy, you should be swimming in poon.

I have been reading DJ Bible but I don't seem to understand this fully how to be a man

What exactly don't your understand?

because all I know what to do is be an ******* to a woman when she is ignoring me or blowing me off and it doesn't work.

it isn't about being an a$$hole per se. It's about incorporating the characteristics of an a$$hole that women find attractive. This strategy doesn't work for you because she doesn't care, and she doesn't care because she isn't emotionally invested in you.

I know I should be happy having a woman who loves me, but the my past and childhood really messed me up in this respect. Growing up, never having a woman and seeing women all the time and never having them talk to me really screwed me up mentally.

Seek professional help.

...not giving an OUNCE of damn or anything about a woman, unless they are freaking good to me. Like the one I am currently seeing is taking me to The Blues game tonight. The we're having dinner.

If you have a chick taking you to the hockey game and buying (cooking you,) dinner, then exactly what is your issue and what do you want?

So help me out, I would appreciate it and I would help you guys out any way if possible.

What exactly do you want help on?

...when I confronted her about liking me and asked her to be with me, I said it was all unintentional." I called her a slut? Why would you do that if you liked me like? Why did you putme in your friend zone?

Judging the emotional beta nature of this thread, you probably came off as needy, clingy, and emotionally unstable.

Listen, bruh and this is the LAST TIME, I'm going to say this. This is about making lifestyle changes. In order to successfully change your life, you have to be persistent and VERY DISCIPLINED in eliminating the bad habits in your life and adopting and implementing the good ones. Since it's taken you a LIFETIME to develop these bad habits, it's going to take you awhile to eliminate them. In order to do what you want to do, you have to out every night, endure the learning curve, learn from your mistakes, and talk to A LOT of women. You have to devote six months to a year of your of life to relentlessly pursuing women until you start to notice any sort of change and. Read the material, implement it, and practice, practice, practice, and practice.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

I appreciate all the replies especially this guy on the bottom.

I should be swimming in poon LOL but I am not and that is why I am here. I have a girl shes cool and all but shes not giving me all the attention I want and I only see her like few times a week I wanna be like other guys that get 3 women a week to screw you know? Yeah I had some emotional problems this girl I saw last year played games I went off on her and her friend and stuff because she was lying to me but I know its just women. I was VERY needy and clingy when I was with my first girlfriend "I thought I was in in love" and I did crazy things I brought her flowers she was mad at me and I was upset and I chased her to grocery store it was bad she said I was crazy. MAN dude seems like a long time, I don't know my game does not seem great when I talk to women at bars I just talk ask them questions and then it gets quiet and aint much to say I end up leaving or try to get number they wont give me number. How long do you talk to them, how do you get them interested in you? I don't know man seems hard and ****.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

I am seeking coginive behavior therapy its guy that just talks to me and stuff he doesn't know a whole bunch about women like you guys but hes ok guy.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

How do you get A$$Hole Traits?

 

[Maximus Rex]

You're Doing too Much

I have a girl shes cool and all but shes not giving me all the attention

You know that sounds hella gay, right? You're a grown man talking about I'm not getting enough attention from my broad. Dude how much attention do you want? Don't you have interests or hobbies. Don't you enjoy your alone time?

I want and I only see her like few times a week

How much more are you trying to see her.

I wanna be like other guys that get 3 women a week to screw you know?

What Don Juans are getting to know three women a week carnally? Please post a link to those threads so Rex can read them.

I was VERY needy and clingy when I was with my first girlfriend "I thought I was in in love" and I did crazy things I brought her flowers she was mad at me

Stop simpin'.

I was upset and I chased her to grocery store it was bad

:crackup: That's funny.

she said I was crazy.

Listen bruh, being needy, clingy, getting upset at a chick then giving her flowers to make up, and chasing her around a grocery store is CRAZY.

I don't know my game does not seem great when I talk to women at bars I just talk ask them questions and then it gets quiet and aint much to say I end up leaving or try to get number they wont give me number. How long do you talk to them, how do you get them interested in you? I don't know man seems hard and ****.

How do you get A$$Hole Traits?

Read these books,

The Game, Penetrating the Society of Pickup Artists, by Neil Strauss.

The Mystery Method, How to Get Beautiful Women into Your Bed, by Mystery

The Art of Mackin' by Tariq Nasheed.

The Don Juan Bible http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195515

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMe0SgrxQxE

Be The Ted Bundy Of Pickup: The Killer Instinct That Will Get You Laid 10/10 Times

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BEkQOIt8l_0

Triple Your Results INSTANTLY: How To Be The Guy She Can't Get

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uyLsXz_I9lY


Why You Must Embrace Pickup as a Lifestyle

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Thanks so much I got ALOT of research and reading and watching to do lol. I dled these books and hope to improve on things. Im listening to stoplosingwomen podcast he said you gotta date 3 women a week so you don't seem clingy when you lose one and stuff.

 

[Epimanes]

Seriously... Go to the dj bible.... And find..

"Be a man" by pook

"Kill your desperation" by pook

That is all..

Epi

Edit: also have a listen to the podcast I posted in married guy section. Its very entertaining to listen to and very informative.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Its weird last year when I approached women I had this feeling in my chest when I would approach and would get hot and when I would put number in my phone I would start shaking so WEIRD man!

Now when I do I don't get hot or chest feeling and I don't shake so I am improving I know.

 

[JoeMarron]

Rex pretty much told you everything you need to know. You can read a billion books and get advice from men who's slept with 10000 women and it won't mean sh!t if you don't get out there and practice. It has been said that it takes 10,000 hours to truly master a skill. Do you know how long 10,000 hours is? This sh!t is not going to happen overnight. Attracting women is a skill. Unless you're fortunate enough to be a natural, which clearly you aren't, then you're going to have to work your ass off if you want to be able to smash pvssy left and right. Work on your fundamentals (fitness, style, social skills, the basic stuff that makes anyone more attractive) and talk to women everywhere. Keep gaming, keep escalating, keep going on dates, keep trying out new things that you learn, keep putting yourself out there until you get the success that you want.

 

[Bible_Belt]

training to be in Pro Wrestling

If you actually want to learn how to fight, I know a lot about the St Louis area and can tell you the best trainers, depending upon what you want to learn.

 

[skinnyguy]

Rex pretty much told you everything you need to know. You can read a billion books and get advice from men who's slept with 10000 women and it won't mean sh!t if you don't get out there and practice. It has been said that it takes 10,000 hours to truly master a skill. Do you know how long 10,000 hours is? This sh!t is not going to happen overnight. Attracting women is a skill. Unless you're fortunate enough to be a natural, which clearly you aren't, then you're going to have to work your ass off if you want to be able to smash pvssy left and right. Work on your fundamentals (fitness, style, social skills, the basic stuff that makes anyone more attractive) and talk to women everywhere. Keep gaming, keep escalating, keep going on dates, keep trying out new things that you learn, keep putting yourself out there until you get the success that you want.

Not entirely true. I know you have high rep and people will call me a troll for disagreeing with you but some guys don't even spend 100 hours and get laid because of looks and social status. How would you explain that?

Spending 10k hours trying to get puss sounds like a grand waste of time to me. You are better off spending that time working on your career.

 

[JoeMarron]

Not entirely true. I know you have high rep and people will call me a troll for disagreeing with you but some guys don't even spend 100 hours and get laid because of looks and social status. How would you explain that?

Spending 10k hours trying to get puss sounds like a grand waste of time to me. You are better off spending that time working on your career.

That's why I said "unless you're fortunate enough to be a natural." If a man is starting out as a socially awkward mess with average looks then of course he's gonna have to put in far more work than the good looking socially competent dude.

I'd agree with you on it being a waste of time which is why I don't do it lol. This guy on the other hand clearly wants to get really good at this so he's going to have to put in the work. It doesn't have to be a full time job. Simply talking to women throughout his day will get him plenty of practice. BTW OP put some goddamn periods and spaces in those walls of text.