"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this is a perfect example of spinning plates

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

jonwon

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The problem is far bigger then what is being reported there.

They dont cover the fact the guy cant use protection so each sexual encounter one more pops out, imagine the stress imposed on a guy finacially and emotionally knowing each fu** is gonna result in a kid?

That is the real problem the fact he has mutiple wifes satifying his ever need is not the issue the medie is just painting another white wash properganda BS from the ideal.

Dont get washed in the media BS most of it is trying to sell or get an opinion over that pleases the BS that sociaty has woved into you.

Watch what you buy into!

Turst your GUT and the man that is inside.

Medie, news e.t.c Hate it all I avoid it like the plauge if i have to.

It is all biased BS focused on segretated sociaty pockets, all ways one side whislt the other is portrayed as the villian. There is no balance in the media BS frame, it is biased and not worth your time to think about.

Also one other thing to consider.

Picture this, most news is reported on BAD things, BAD things ppl like the DRAMA the things that are going on.

But ask yourself this.
You get up on the morning no imprint of the day social fresh and ready for the world.
You pick up the news and see death, destruction, carnage, misery and pain, this is waht papers and news are 80% consistant of.
Now ask yourself this, if you reading this what frame will this put you in?

This will put you in a neagtive frame without even realizing it.

Why not read some nice news have some great news some uplifting news?

Why because we are so fu**ing keyed in we find it boring, only the death and carnage of others is what we seek.
 

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Yep, that guy got busy back in his day. ROFFLMAO! Struggle to remember each of his childrens names! That's sad...
 
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